Well, I am quite angry right now. As I just found that my email box has been misused by the third party in the last few months without my permissions.
And I'm really have no ideas about this till just now as I need to recheck something in those sent out email in my email box.
I'm now got a bit of worried as those email sent by the third party were those annoying email to other email users.
Damn sweat now and I'm really now want to piss off to the person who misuse my email address to send those annoying email(link to those sexual website) to other email users.
However back to more rational thinking, the reason why I wrote this blog is I hope to inform my friends to check their email box and those sent out email.
As sometimes our email box may have had misused by the third party without our knowledge for their "dirty" commercial usages.
So, I 'm really hope those people have received those annoying email won't be affected by those "dirty" method used by the third party for their selfish commercial usages.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Holidays started
Hooray, today I have finally finished my last paper in this semester.
Really happy as I'm now can my precious time and holiday back. Pretty tired now as yesterday till this morning I only had slept for two hours.
Well, pretty happy now as I have borrowed some books from my University library. So, I 'm really hope I can have time to read them.
Recently, I got a lot of books want to read like Business Think by Stephen R. Covey, Rich dad's: Guide to investing, What the Rich Invest In, That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki, Warren Buffett: Master of the Market by Jay Steele and The Acne Prescription by Nicholas Perricone, M.D.
Besides reading these books, I also hope to use my semester break time to sleep. As I always have not enough time to sleep during my school semester, so must sleep back more for those time I have never sleep.
I think that's all for this moment as I'm really need to have a short snooze now after a whole day study and sat for exam.
Really happy as I'm now can my precious time and holiday back. Pretty tired now as yesterday till this morning I only had slept for two hours.
Well, pretty happy now as I have borrowed some books from my University library. So, I 'm really hope I can have time to read them.
Recently, I got a lot of books want to read like Business Think by Stephen R. Covey, Rich dad's: Guide to investing, What the Rich Invest In, That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki, Warren Buffett: Master of the Market by Jay Steele and The Acne Prescription by Nicholas Perricone, M.D.
Besides reading these books, I also hope to use my semester break time to sleep. As I always have not enough time to sleep during my school semester, so must sleep back more for those time I have never sleep.
I think that's all for this moment as I'm really need to have a short snooze now after a whole day study and sat for exam.
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Relatives = troublesome
Suddenly feel like want to go back to my house after received a phone call from my mum.I'm really have the feeling want to protect my family from all those stupid distractions and disturbs from those ridiculous and demanding people.
However, unfortunately now I can't go back now as my final exam is just started and haven't finish.
Well, actually there is no a big deal or things happened now if my family don't really calculate on what my lousy aunty and uncle demands. But, we think it is all my aunty and uncle( my mum's brother and sister)problems to ask for those demands. Things are started to happen when one of my cousin( my uncle son / my mum niece), he is about to marry in this coming DECEMBER.
However, the weird part is that both of my uncle and aunt are asking us to lend out our new car to this cousin. But, for our concerns neither of this cousin's father/ mother or himself is asking for that demands- he want to borrow our car as his bridge car on the wedding day.
Frankly speaking, normally people won't simply lend out their new car to other people as the insurance policy is bought under first people who drive the car.
Some more , it's really stupid for us to travel 300 kilometers from TPG to KL just to lend the car to them. Not say we are selfish, but really my aunty and uncle, they are really demanding person. During the recent trip, my parents travel back from China, they said they want to buy some Hennessy. If my parents buy from the airport will be more cheaper. But,the problem is after they take those Hennessy, they don't paid us back the money.
So, is this kind of attitude of people can trust or reliable?
For us, it is really scary. How about if anything happens to the car when they use our car? People like this really no responsible at all , how can we trust them?
When they have other bad record in the past. Borrow one of my relatives car and crash in an accident but after all never give back the owner any compensations and money on the car or repair back the car.
So, in brief relatives are not necessary to be good, sometimes it can defines as troublesome especially when you meet people who always try to take advantages from you. ~~~~~~~Lousy PEOPLE with Over Demanding Without Reasonably factors.
However, unfortunately now I can't go back now as my final exam is just started and haven't finish.
Well, actually there is no a big deal or things happened now if my family don't really calculate on what my lousy aunty and uncle demands. But, we think it is all my aunty and uncle( my mum's brother and sister)problems to ask for those demands. Things are started to happen when one of my cousin( my uncle son / my mum niece), he is about to marry in this coming DECEMBER.
However, the weird part is that both of my uncle and aunt are asking us to lend out our new car to this cousin. But, for our concerns neither of this cousin's father/ mother or himself is asking for that demands- he want to borrow our car as his bridge car on the wedding day.
Frankly speaking, normally people won't simply lend out their new car to other people as the insurance policy is bought under first people who drive the car.
Some more , it's really stupid for us to travel 300 kilometers from TPG to KL just to lend the car to them. Not say we are selfish, but really my aunty and uncle, they are really demanding person. During the recent trip, my parents travel back from China, they said they want to buy some Hennessy. If my parents buy from the airport will be more cheaper. But,the problem is after they take those Hennessy, they don't paid us back the money.
So, is this kind of attitude of people can trust or reliable?
For us, it is really scary. How about if anything happens to the car when they use our car? People like this really no responsible at all , how can we trust them?
When they have other bad record in the past. Borrow one of my relatives car and crash in an accident but after all never give back the owner any compensations and money on the car or repair back the car.
So, in brief relatives are not necessary to be good, sometimes it can defines as troublesome especially when you meet people who always try to take advantages from you. ~~~~~~~Lousy PEOPLE with Over Demanding Without Reasonably factors.
Sunday, December 6, 2009
world of silence
In brief,
No sounds can be heard, as I got no voices to make as well.
Today I go to seek doctor, he asked me to keep quiet for 3 days.
as my throat: voice box will be lost soon , if I keep talking.
damn sweat, but no choice. even now, I also can't speak cause the tones of
my voices are totally out & uneven.
Or can say worse than a 3 years old children. They can speak well than me.
Really hopeless & helpless now, can even receive those phone call for my
parents/relatives/friends.
When I met my friend, I also can't speak.
This is the first time, I got severe sore throat till I can't speak at all.
Although, I always will try to be independent in my life and try to be
less depend much on other people. But, now really Oh My God!! being in world of
silence is very terrible, cause you can't talk and you still need to communicate
with people.
Even dumb people, got their ways to communicate.
For me, really no choice I use notes pad and pen. But, up to now I still haven't
go out without people accompany me.
However, after this experience it really makes me feel and think more deeper how
about those people born in dumb or can't speak at all
and also those born without a proper functioning organ.
Even, I sometimes will feel sympathy for people who have disability or disorder.
And I try to help them.
But, one thing I realized now are they need us, our help and not sympathy.
Just like my case, this is the time I need people to help me.
Frankly speaking, I really feel a bit helpless whenever I fall sick.
But, this time is more different than previous experience.
As I have to keep myself in the world of silence in order to let my voice box
recover faster.
world of silence~~~~~~
No sounds can be heard, as I got no voices to make as well.
Today I go to seek doctor, he asked me to keep quiet for 3 days.
as my throat: voice box will be lost soon , if I keep talking.
damn sweat, but no choice. even now, I also can't speak cause the tones of
my voices are totally out & uneven.
Or can say worse than a 3 years old children. They can speak well than me.
Really hopeless & helpless now, can even receive those phone call for my
parents/relatives/friends.
When I met my friend, I also can't speak.
This is the first time, I got severe sore throat till I can't speak at all.
Although, I always will try to be independent in my life and try to be
less depend much on other people. But, now really Oh My God!! being in world of
silence is very terrible, cause you can't talk and you still need to communicate
with people.
Even dumb people, got their ways to communicate.
For me, really no choice I use notes pad and pen. But, up to now I still haven't
go out without people accompany me.
However, after this experience it really makes me feel and think more deeper how
about those people born in dumb or can't speak at all
and also those born without a proper functioning organ.
Even, I sometimes will feel sympathy for people who have disability or disorder.
And I try to help them.
But, one thing I realized now are they need us, our help and not sympathy.
Just like my case, this is the time I need people to help me.
Frankly speaking, I really feel a bit helpless whenever I fall sick.
But, this time is more different than previous experience.
As I have to keep myself in the world of silence in order to let my voice box
recover faster.
world of silence~~~~~~
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Christmas is coming soon
Yesterday night I went out with my eldest brother to Berjaya Times Square, Sungai Wang and Pavilion. At first, the destination we want to go is KLCC as there is a PC Fair Sales in the KLCC Conventional Hall.
We then just hang out and eat in one of the restaurant in Sungai Wang. Later, we have made our ways to Pavilion as it is just a distance route then we can reach there.
May be Christmas is coming soon, there are a lot of decorations on Christmas trees in any shopping mall like Pavilion and Times Square.
However, the most of beautiful decorations I found are at the Pavilion there.
A lot of Giant Christmas Trees full with decorations, the Santa deer decorate with white light and white light Christmas trees. Besides, in order to make it look real like in the Western Country which have winter season, Pavilion management has set up a machine to release the snow from the top of the building. Of course, it is a fake snow compare to those real snow in the Winter.
This visit really wonderful and make me recall back my visit to the Orchard, in the Singapore and the Christmas Trees and deco in Macau and HK.
However, for me the atmosphere of the places are very important as it will influence your emotions and thinking. So, in brief Pavilion has made me feel the atmosphere of Christmas is coming soon, and it does not necessary for you to be in a Western Country only you can feel the passion of celebrating Christmas.
We then just hang out and eat in one of the restaurant in Sungai Wang. Later, we have made our ways to Pavilion as it is just a distance route then we can reach there.
May be Christmas is coming soon, there are a lot of decorations on Christmas trees in any shopping mall like Pavilion and Times Square.
However, the most of beautiful decorations I found are at the Pavilion there.
A lot of Giant Christmas Trees full with decorations, the Santa deer decorate with white light and white light Christmas trees. Besides, in order to make it look real like in the Western Country which have winter season, Pavilion management has set up a machine to release the snow from the top of the building. Of course, it is a fake snow compare to those real snow in the Winter.
This visit really wonderful and make me recall back my visit to the Orchard, in the Singapore and the Christmas Trees and deco in Macau and HK.
However, for me the atmosphere of the places are very important as it will influence your emotions and thinking. So, in brief Pavilion has made me feel the atmosphere of Christmas is coming soon, and it does not necessary for you to be in a Western Country only you can feel the passion of celebrating Christmas.
Severe Sore Throat
Well, today can consider as a most difficult day for me.
This is because I have a severe sore throat and my voice is totally out and uneven tones now.It has caused me a lot of problems especially when I need to talk and communicate to other people.
Just like today, in the LRT station and 7 -eleven shop when I tried to communicate with the people at there. My voice was very uneven and the volume of my voice are limited and I can't even speak slightly louder.
This is really not a good experience/ idea to go out when you are sick / have sore throat. As your situations will become more severe and feel uneasy especially when you are alone.
Just like in my case, actually now is my study week and most of my friends/housemates have go back to hometown. However, for me there is still a training and no ones in my house. Therefore, I have choose to stay here in my hostel to study rather than just travel from PJ to TPG. Really miss TPG and hope to go back when Irene, Ching ying went back to TPG.
Hopefully, I will recover faster and get back my voices soon. Really troublesome if you can talk. And now I need to use a notes pad and pen to communicate with my housemate, wanqi. Luckily, I still got her at hostel to help me if not really will die soon. Even now I want to buy food, I also have to ask for her help as I'm really have no voice to talk.
This is because I have a severe sore throat and my voice is totally out and uneven tones now.It has caused me a lot of problems especially when I need to talk and communicate to other people.
Just like today, in the LRT station and 7 -eleven shop when I tried to communicate with the people at there. My voice was very uneven and the volume of my voice are limited and I can't even speak slightly louder.
This is really not a good experience/ idea to go out when you are sick / have sore throat. As your situations will become more severe and feel uneasy especially when you are alone.
Just like in my case, actually now is my study week and most of my friends/housemates have go back to hometown. However, for me there is still a training and no ones in my house. Therefore, I have choose to stay here in my hostel to study rather than just travel from PJ to TPG. Really miss TPG and hope to go back when Irene, Ching ying went back to TPG.
Hopefully, I will recover faster and get back my voices soon. Really troublesome if you can talk. And now I need to use a notes pad and pen to communicate with my housemate, wanqi. Luckily, I still got her at hostel to help me if not really will die soon. Even now I want to buy food, I also have to ask for her help as I'm really have no voice to talk.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Sweat Talk in MSN
I just chat with my ex-secondary schoolmate in MSN.
During our conversation, she asked me whether I know our mutual friend, Toh already had boyfriend. She then asked how about me. I just answered her anything she asked.
But, the most funny and sweat part was when she asked me to go for "Seong Tai" or try to date with other guy or chase guy.
For me, it is really sweat and funny. It seems like she is asking me to "Lelong myself" to the public. I'm really don't blame her but feel funny and continue ask her back on how to chase guy.Undeniable I also really playful as I keep continue ask her back many questions like how about you. you got people to intro to me, you got chase before etc. I have decided to write it out in my blog as it was really fun to have a topic on my friend teach me how to "Lelong myself".
However, back to more mature way to handle those questions for her, I was really should not keep playing like this.
For me, relationship is something that need to use heart, time,tolerant, communicate and other ingredients like caring, respect etc to sustain it.I believe love are the combination of the feelings and the fate. The feelings you fall for someone and the fate let you both to meet each other. So, if you ask me to date or chase someone. I will feel a bit of weird even though my friend said this is a new era. Or may be I should ask her chase ones for herself first. Then, only I learn from her. Hahahaha~~~~~~
During our conversation, she asked me whether I know our mutual friend, Toh already had boyfriend. She then asked how about me. I just answered her anything she asked.
But, the most funny and sweat part was when she asked me to go for "Seong Tai" or try to date with other guy or chase guy.
For me, it is really sweat and funny. It seems like she is asking me to "Lelong myself" to the public. I'm really don't blame her but feel funny and continue ask her back on how to chase guy.Undeniable I also really playful as I keep continue ask her back many questions like how about you. you got people to intro to me, you got chase before etc. I have decided to write it out in my blog as it was really fun to have a topic on my friend teach me how to "Lelong myself".
However, back to more mature way to handle those questions for her, I was really should not keep playing like this.
For me, relationship is something that need to use heart, time,tolerant, communicate and other ingredients like caring, respect etc to sustain it.I believe love are the combination of the feelings and the fate. The feelings you fall for someone and the fate let you both to meet each other. So, if you ask me to date or chase someone. I will feel a bit of weird even though my friend said this is a new era. Or may be I should ask her chase ones for herself first. Then, only I learn from her. Hahahaha~~~~~~
Friday, November 27, 2009
26 November 2009 Story
Today was a sunny day as there was no raining in the whole day.
As recently, it was raining everyday and even throughout of the last few weeks.
I wake up at 9.30am morning even though today I supposed to be still laid on my bed as there was no class on today. This was because I had already promised my friend, Jynn to go for the morning market in our housing areas as both of us want to buy some fruits and vegie in the market.
After buying them, we went for our breakfast. While eating, we had topics on the food in PJ again as the taste of the "spicy pan mee" is really good and other things like We must try to eat all the food in PJ we like/want before we go to Setapak there.
For me, I think I will miss everything at here, the food, friends, environment but I believe I can adapt myself fast with no problem in another new place. However, I just need to take a little bit time to get used with that new place and those people I will meet at the campus.
In the afternoon, I went out again with my housemates: Wanqi,Teoh and his friend Chris who currently study in Hokkaido, Japan. The reason we went for tea was just like some kind of farewell to Teoh and Chris as Teoh was offically moved out to other place and Chris will go back to his hometown and in next January he will fly back to Japan again.
Frankly, all of us in our house just know Chris recently through Teoh.
May be all of us are that type of frankly speaking person, therefore all of us include Chua (another housemate) really have a great chat with Chris.
And all of us (my housemate and I) always talk with each other with some topics in daily life just like a family. I am the big sister among them, however for me I don't think an age is the barrier for us to communicate as I think it is depends on how you going to approach those people.
For me, I think it is important for every individual to learn how to communicate with different people with different background, age and thinking. And how you start a conversation with people. This is because from conservations, we may found that what are people's thinking, the ways they chat with people ,personality and the method they use to respond to those stuff they unwilling to disclose.Besides, you may made people reveal more about themselves by asking questions and try to lead them with some topics in order to build the rapport between people.
During the conservations among them, I find out it's very interesting to get know all of them as you may found that nowadays children who born in 1990th onwards are different from those born in 1980th. I think I have given the opportunity to know better what are the thinking of those young people and what was the difference of their secondary school life compare to my ones. May be sometimes they are "San Pat" and naive but for me it depends how you treat it and respond with them as a "san Pat" or as an open-minded adviser to give them some opinions in life.
In brief, if you try to mix with young people just try not to act like you are the senior and treat them as children. Learn to treat them as an adult. This is because you will bring a gap with those young people. For them, they might think what for I talk to this old people with that type narrow-minded thinking always treat them as a naive person.
So, that's all I want to share today.
As recently, it was raining everyday and even throughout of the last few weeks.
I wake up at 9.30am morning even though today I supposed to be still laid on my bed as there was no class on today. This was because I had already promised my friend, Jynn to go for the morning market in our housing areas as both of us want to buy some fruits and vegie in the market.
After buying them, we went for our breakfast. While eating, we had topics on the food in PJ again as the taste of the "spicy pan mee" is really good and other things like We must try to eat all the food in PJ we like/want before we go to Setapak there.
For me, I think I will miss everything at here, the food, friends, environment but I believe I can adapt myself fast with no problem in another new place. However, I just need to take a little bit time to get used with that new place and those people I will meet at the campus.
In the afternoon, I went out again with my housemates: Wanqi,Teoh and his friend Chris who currently study in Hokkaido, Japan. The reason we went for tea was just like some kind of farewell to Teoh and Chris as Teoh was offically moved out to other place and Chris will go back to his hometown and in next January he will fly back to Japan again.
Frankly, all of us in our house just know Chris recently through Teoh.
May be all of us are that type of frankly speaking person, therefore all of us include Chua (another housemate) really have a great chat with Chris.
And all of us (my housemate and I) always talk with each other with some topics in daily life just like a family. I am the big sister among them, however for me I don't think an age is the barrier for us to communicate as I think it is depends on how you going to approach those people.
For me, I think it is important for every individual to learn how to communicate with different people with different background, age and thinking. And how you start a conversation with people. This is because from conservations, we may found that what are people's thinking, the ways they chat with people ,personality and the method they use to respond to those stuff they unwilling to disclose.Besides, you may made people reveal more about themselves by asking questions and try to lead them with some topics in order to build the rapport between people.
During the conservations among them, I find out it's very interesting to get know all of them as you may found that nowadays children who born in 1990th onwards are different from those born in 1980th. I think I have given the opportunity to know better what are the thinking of those young people and what was the difference of their secondary school life compare to my ones. May be sometimes they are "San Pat" and naive but for me it depends how you treat it and respond with them as a "san Pat" or as an open-minded adviser to give them some opinions in life.
In brief, if you try to mix with young people just try not to act like you are the senior and treat them as children. Learn to treat them as an adult. This is because you will bring a gap with those young people. For them, they might think what for I talk to this old people with that type narrow-minded thinking always treat them as a naive person.
So, that's all I want to share today.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Moving to Setapak soon
Moving to Setapak soon in this coming end of December.
As me and my friends, we had chosen to study in the Faculty of FES in Setapak to complete our last semester there. This is because some of the subjects we need to take are only available at there if not we need to extend for one more semester to study.
Really tired now, I don't want to think so much now.
Quite of sick of being thinking about this, but hope to pass all the subjects and complete my studies.
However, what makes us feel bad are we miss PJ. The place that we had been stayed for almost 3 years. The people, food, friends and those restaurant or even those food we use to eat at PJ. Besides that, of course we will miss those shopping mall near PJ like Mid-valley, One Utama, Tropicana City Mall etc even though I'm not a great shopper.
We had already found a condo in Wangsa Maju there. Now only left the procedure of signing contact and see when can take the keys and move in the condo. So, in this coming December I think I definitely are very busy and have a little bit time to go back hometown -TPG. As besides moving house, I need to start packing my stuff and prepare for my final exam now.
Hopefully everything will be alright. As recently really got a lot changes for the arrangements that we have made due to human factors.
I'm really hope people can keep their minds clear and don't be hesitate or keep changes minds as it is very troublesome and making people sick.
As me and my friends, we had chosen to study in the Faculty of FES in Setapak to complete our last semester there. This is because some of the subjects we need to take are only available at there if not we need to extend for one more semester to study.
Really tired now, I don't want to think so much now.
Quite of sick of being thinking about this, but hope to pass all the subjects and complete my studies.
However, what makes us feel bad are we miss PJ. The place that we had been stayed for almost 3 years. The people, food, friends and those restaurant or even those food we use to eat at PJ. Besides that, of course we will miss those shopping mall near PJ like Mid-valley, One Utama, Tropicana City Mall etc even though I'm not a great shopper.
We had already found a condo in Wangsa Maju there. Now only left the procedure of signing contact and see when can take the keys and move in the condo. So, in this coming December I think I definitely are very busy and have a little bit time to go back hometown -TPG. As besides moving house, I need to start packing my stuff and prepare for my final exam now.
Hopefully everything will be alright. As recently really got a lot changes for the arrangements that we have made due to human factors.
I'm really hope people can keep their minds clear and don't be hesitate or keep changes minds as it is very troublesome and making people sick.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
2012 "The end of day in the earth"
Today, it can considered as happy day for me and my friends.
As we had finally finished and submitted our assignment today.
The last things need to be done for this short semester.
Well, it's really undeniable and without realize it had already at the end of November 2009.
Time flies and it's really flies away.
Back to us again, after our class ended. We went go One Utama shopping mall to have some food at Sakae Sushi there after we had bought our tickets for the movie called "2012".
So, we just spent our time to eat and chat inside the restaurant there until the time was almost 5.00pm then we walked to the GSC cinema there. The whole movie took about two and the hour to finish. We then went home with Wendy's car.
While watching that movie, there were many feelings and emotions happened on me.
I can see what is happened if there is really an "end of day" in the world and how will you feel and react. Besides, I have started to think if there is really a day like that who will I spend my time with and what are the things that I want to do before the end of day.
My answer are my family and all my loved ones. People need comfort from each other especially when they are in dilemma. If there are more times left behind,I hope I can travel to the place I want to go. As I always have the thinking of travel to other countries to broaden my minds and hope to see the culture and those architecture building in different places. If I'm really have a time to travel again, I hope that I can go for a trip to China or HK or Macau again. Or may be to other countries like Taiwan or Korea after I have graduated. So,I hope I'm really can pass all now, then I go as soon as possible in the next coming year 2010. If not my mum sure nag on me.
Besides that, I also feel that the conscience of the people on saving others life
and the in-selfishness are very important after I watched the movie of "2012".
Moreover, I think this is the time to let our people to wake up and start help to save our mother earth. So that, she won't get hurt by our human being.
Hopefully, I can reduce the usage of plastic nowadays, as sometimes I also will use it for the reason of convenient.
As we had finally finished and submitted our assignment today.
The last things need to be done for this short semester.
Well, it's really undeniable and without realize it had already at the end of November 2009.
Time flies and it's really flies away.
Back to us again, after our class ended. We went go One Utama shopping mall to have some food at Sakae Sushi there after we had bought our tickets for the movie called "2012".
So, we just spent our time to eat and chat inside the restaurant there until the time was almost 5.00pm then we walked to the GSC cinema there. The whole movie took about two and the hour to finish. We then went home with Wendy's car.
While watching that movie, there were many feelings and emotions happened on me.
I can see what is happened if there is really an "end of day" in the world and how will you feel and react. Besides, I have started to think if there is really a day like that who will I spend my time with and what are the things that I want to do before the end of day.
My answer are my family and all my loved ones. People need comfort from each other especially when they are in dilemma. If there are more times left behind,I hope I can travel to the place I want to go. As I always have the thinking of travel to other countries to broaden my minds and hope to see the culture and those architecture building in different places. If I'm really have a time to travel again, I hope that I can go for a trip to China or HK or Macau again. Or may be to other countries like Taiwan or Korea after I have graduated. So,I hope I'm really can pass all now, then I go as soon as possible in the next coming year 2010. If not my mum sure nag on me.
Besides that, I also feel that the conscience of the people on saving others life
and the in-selfishness are very important after I watched the movie of "2012".
Moreover, I think this is the time to let our people to wake up and start help to save our mother earth. So that, she won't get hurt by our human being.
Hopefully, I can reduce the usage of plastic nowadays, as sometimes I also will use it for the reason of convenient.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
IS Relationship= Relation + shit ??
Today, I just found that my cousin had broke up with her boyfriend as I saw her post of relationship status being from "In a relationship " to "single" in the facebook.
Really sad to know about this, as I'm never think of there will be one day like this.
Everything seem nothing and I don't even know what happened in between of them. For me, I don't think I'm really dare to ask her directly as this may be sensitive and personal issue.
However, there are many questions in my minds now and I'm not try to gossip but concern about why it had happened. My concern are more on why the relationship doesn't last long even though they had been together (for what I can remember) at least 3 years.Is it the problem of the person or other factors?
Frankly speaking, I'm really can't accept it and don't know how comes nowadays those relationship can be started so easy and ended so misery.
I don't know whether to feel pity for her boyfriend or my cousin. As my cousin got wrote a sentence in her personal text in facebook there. the content is something that she finally broke up with that "cheap guy", now when she think of him also feel very hate, but thank for all those good things he did for her.
Haiz, really speechless for her action as the ways of displaying all those sentence in the social networking website. There got a lot of eyes and people there. Somemore, some of my cousin's friends still post comments on it. I feel like they make the issue like a common discussion on the internet.
May be this trend of the relationship. Really wonder can I define it as: Relationship = Relation + shit
When it starts it is a relationship , but once it ends it defines as relationshit
However, for me the relationship is depends on the couple. How they handle their relationship, how they respect and communicate with each other, how to guide each other and grow up together and I'm believe true love will last forever and love has no boundaries even if that is a long-distance love.
Really sad to know about this, as I'm never think of there will be one day like this.
Everything seem nothing and I don't even know what happened in between of them. For me, I don't think I'm really dare to ask her directly as this may be sensitive and personal issue.
However, there are many questions in my minds now and I'm not try to gossip but concern about why it had happened. My concern are more on why the relationship doesn't last long even though they had been together (for what I can remember) at least 3 years.Is it the problem of the person or other factors?
Frankly speaking, I'm really can't accept it and don't know how comes nowadays those relationship can be started so easy and ended so misery.
I don't know whether to feel pity for her boyfriend or my cousin. As my cousin got wrote a sentence in her personal text in facebook there. the content is something that she finally broke up with that "cheap guy", now when she think of him also feel very hate, but thank for all those good things he did for her.
Haiz, really speechless for her action as the ways of displaying all those sentence in the social networking website. There got a lot of eyes and people there. Somemore, some of my cousin's friends still post comments on it. I feel like they make the issue like a common discussion on the internet.
May be this trend of the relationship. Really wonder can I define it as: Relationship = Relation + shit
When it starts it is a relationship , but once it ends it defines as relationshit
However, for me the relationship is depends on the couple. How they handle their relationship, how they respect and communicate with each other, how to guide each other and grow up together and I'm believe true love will last forever and love has no boundaries even if that is a long-distance love.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
仙劍奇俠傳三
最近，我都在听这两首歌。也许真的被歌词当中的意义及被仙剑奇侠传三内的剧情感动。
紫萱对长卿的那份爱。他们的三世姻缘，及紫萱对爱的执拙。
《偏爱》-张芸京
把昨天都作废现在你在我眼前
我想爱请给我机会
如果我错了也承担认定你就是答案
我不怕谁嘲笑我极端
相信自己的直觉
顽固的仍不喊累
爱上你我不撤退
我说过我不闪躲我非要这麽做
讲不听也偏要爱更努力爱让你明白
没有别条路能走你决定要不要陪我
讲不听偏爱看我感觉爱
等你的依赖对你偏爱
痛也很愉快
把昨天都作废现在你在我眼前
我想爱请给我机会
如果我错了也承担认定你就是答案
我不怕谁嘲笑我极端
相信自己的直觉
顽固的仍不喊累
爱上你我不撤退
我说过我不闪躲我非要这麽做
讲不听也偏要爱更努力爱让你明白
没有别条路能走你决定要不要陪我
讲不听偏爱看我感觉爱
等你的依赖
不后悔有把握我不闪躲我非要这麽做
讲不听也偏要爱更努力爱让你明白
没有别条路能走你决定要不要陪我
讲不听偏爱看我感觉爱
等你的依赖对你偏爱
痛也很愉快
《此生不换》青鸟飞鱼
时光穿不断 流转在从前
刻骨的变迁 不是遥远
再有一万年 深情也不变
爱像烈火般蔓延
记忆是条长线 盘旋在天边
沉浮中以为 情深缘浅
你再度出现 我看见誓言
承诺在水天之间
回头看 不曾走远 依然目光此生不换
要分散 不习惯 怎么算 都太难
分开之后更勇敢 愿这爱 世代相传
唱不完忘情泉 不让你如烟
前尘再怀恋 望剑如面
挥舞的瞬间 别再闭上眼
错过惊世的依恋
回头看 不曾走远 眷恋一人流连忘返
多少汗 够温暖 你哭喊 我呼唤
听清耳边的呢喃 别害怕 风轻云淡
紫萱对长卿的那份爱。他们的三世姻缘，及紫萱对爱的执拙。
《偏爱》-张芸京
把昨天都作废现在你在我眼前
我想爱请给我机会
如果我错了也承担认定你就是答案
我不怕谁嘲笑我极端
相信自己的直觉
顽固的仍不喊累
爱上你我不撤退
我说过我不闪躲我非要这麽做
讲不听也偏要爱更努力爱让你明白
没有别条路能走你决定要不要陪我
讲不听偏爱看我感觉爱
等你的依赖对你偏爱
痛也很愉快
把昨天都作废现在你在我眼前
我想爱请给我机会
如果我错了也承担认定你就是答案
我不怕谁嘲笑我极端
相信自己的直觉
顽固的仍不喊累
爱上你我不撤退
我说过我不闪躲我非要这麽做
讲不听也偏要爱更努力爱让你明白
没有别条路能走你决定要不要陪我
讲不听偏爱看我感觉爱
等你的依赖
不后悔有把握我不闪躲我非要这麽做
讲不听也偏要爱更努力爱让你明白
没有别条路能走你决定要不要陪我
讲不听偏爱看我感觉爱
等你的依赖对你偏爱
痛也很愉快
《此生不换》青鸟飞鱼
时光穿不断 流转在从前
刻骨的变迁 不是遥远
再有一万年 深情也不变
爱像烈火般蔓延
记忆是条长线 盘旋在天边
沉浮中以为 情深缘浅
你再度出现 我看见誓言
承诺在水天之间
回头看 不曾走远 依然目光此生不换
要分散 不习惯 怎么算 都太难
分开之后更勇敢 愿这爱 世代相传
唱不完忘情泉 不让你如烟
前尘再怀恋 望剑如面
挥舞的瞬间 别再闭上眼
错过惊世的依恋
回头看 不曾走远 眷恋一人流连忘返
多少汗 够温暖 你哭喊 我呼唤
听清耳边的呢喃 别害怕 风轻云淡
Friday, October 30, 2009
Michael Learns To Rock
Tonight I will start my blog article with Michael Learns To Rock(MLTR).
This is because I just find out some of their songs in my Hard disk.
It has been a long times that I don't listen to their songs. It's really great to listen all of the songs again like: Sleeping Child, 25 minutes, Nothing to Lose, I'm Gonna be around,Forever and a day, You took my heart away, Strange Foreign Beauty, Blue night, The Ghost of you, The actor, Complicated heart, more than a friend, Breaking my heart, Love will never lie and so on.
However, my favor songs are 25 minutes, Nothing to lose, Complicated heart, Blue night, and I'm Gonna be around. The reasons that I love MLTR'songs are that they really make me feel and touch my heart. Besides that I also love Daughtry, David Archuleta, Backstreet boys and others singers. In brief, I love any songs or things that make me feel.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
The taste of Heineken
The name of Heineken........
Sound great but actually it's not for me and my housemate, Karen...
After we has drank it, the taste was really weird and bitter for me.
This is may be that I don't used to drink any alcohol drink.
The whole story was began by both of us went to Cold Storage to buy some vegetables and grocery. While buying the grocery, I has came out an idea and suggested Karen:Why not we just buy a Heineken to drink and try what it is the taste. Obviously, both of us are not an expert in this field of drinking beers/wines/alcohol.
But, we tended to have a try on it.
Anyway, both of us really didn't enjoy it but we still managed to finish it just to make sure it wasn't wasted.
Actually, this idea has pop out from my head because recently I saw some of the pictures of my friends in Facebook. More precise to the things I want to say are some of the friends were drinking beer in the pub when they had a gathering in The Curve.
Really wonder what's taste of the Heineken is, so I then has came out this type of idea on giving a try on Heineken.
Despite of it, I do learn some new things about on the human body reaction against with the alcohol drinks. It is really make your body and face become warm.
We are fortunate that we just have some of it and if not I think both of us might drunk.
However, one question has pop up in my mind again : Why guys like to drink beers??
And if not mistaken, if you drink beer frequently, your stomach will become bigger and bigger like a 3 months/ 6 months pregnant lady.
Sweat, really can't imagine if all guys/man have a big stomach just like a woman.
I will just end this article at here and hope people drink less alcohol and always this important message from the Government:" Please don't drink and drive"& always remember your love ones.
How deep is your love
This is a nice song sang by Bee Gees.
How deep is your love
I know your eyes in the morning sun
I feel you touch me in the pouring rain
And the moment that you wander far from me
I wanna feel you in my arms again
And you come to me on a summer breeze
Keep me warm in your love and then softly leave
And it's me you need to show ....
How deep is your love? (how deep is your love?)
I really need to learn
'Cause we're living in a world of fools
Breaking us down
When they all should let us be
We belong to you and me
I believe in you
You know the door to my very soul
You're the light in my deepest darkest hour
You're my saviour when I fall
And you may not think
I care for you
When you know down inside
That I really do
And it's me you need to show ....
How deep is your love? (how deep is your love?)
I really need to learn
'Cause we're living in a world of fools
Breaking us down
When they all should let us be
We belong to you and me
How deep is your love? (how deep is your love?)
I really need to learn
'Cause we're living in a world of fools
Breaking us down
When they all should let us be
We belong to you and me
How deep is your love? (how deep is your love?)
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
避得了是否真的逃得过？
避得了是否真的逃得过？
其实， 有时当你越刻意去做一些事情或想要避开一些人时。
你往往会发现一件事情，就是一：你把事情搞砸了/越搞越衰 二：你就是如何闲、避、躲、逃都好像是避不过的。
那仿佛是天意，那就只好认命咯，去面对它。
其实， 我本人以前也有类似的经历，但今天为何又会谈起这呢。
也许是最近有一位室友告诉我，她在躲避她的中学好友们。
事关她觉得她们很现实，不在乎她的存在， 而且经常八卦及很会利用他人。
但她也告诉我， 她越是刻意避开她们，她就越会遇到她们。感觉上怎么闲、避、躲、逃都好像是避不过她们。
比如她原先预算好在哪些地方、时间是她们不会出现的才去，神知还是鬼知那些人偏偏就是出现在眼前。
听了她的经历后，我们显然都得了一个结论:有些事情/人物有时真的不是说你要闲或避就能如此.
也许你可以说是天意,缘分,或难听点你也可以称它为因果.因为你前世作孽,所以说她们今世来讨债.哈哈~~
我也给了她一些宝贵意见该如何处理和面对这件事.毕竟,现在的她确实很需要一个能给她意见和忠实的听众。
我很能理解她现在的心情和想法。一个曾经被朋友忽略的人及一些不懂得尊重他人感受的朋友。
也许，她的朋友是无意及一时疏忽了她。但是，人心是脆弱的没有一个人能一直被人忽视而不感到难过，尤其是我们重视的人， 相对的难过会更高，一直到我们的心开始麻木和开始想要离开这没有自己容身之处和不开心的地方。
所以话说回来， 我非常赞成她的选择/决定--就是暂时远离她们，而且越离越远就越好。
因为我觉得她在这一段时间内，需要从新想清楚她们的关系和之间问题，同时间我觉得她也应该要学会如何保护自己的感受和如何调整朋友带来的不愉快。
时间可以淡化一切，但如果真的要继续维持友情，就一定要把误会解开和坦诚相对。
话说回：你是否发现有些人是如何闲、避、躲、逃都好像是避不过的？
我会认为这是一种缘分，也许你们之间真的有误会/冲突，但若能在一个完全没有时间性的安排下重遇，你可知那个八仙率有多高吗？所以我真的希望在看我的blog 的人和我的室友，能看待这重遇是一个机会，一个能解决误会的机会及一个能与好友重逢的机会。
若能再次相见，那不是证明了你们的缘分未尽。
希望大家都学会珍惜、关爱、体谅、宽容及懂得如何面对误会/难题。
其实， 有时当你越刻意去做一些事情或想要避开一些人时。
你往往会发现一件事情，就是一：你把事情搞砸了/越搞越衰 二：你就是如何闲、避、躲、逃都好像是避不过的。
那仿佛是天意，那就只好认命咯，去面对它。
其实， 我本人以前也有类似的经历，但今天为何又会谈起这呢。
也许是最近有一位室友告诉我，她在躲避她的中学好友们。
事关她觉得她们很现实，不在乎她的存在， 而且经常八卦及很会利用他人。
但她也告诉我， 她越是刻意避开她们，她就越会遇到她们。感觉上怎么闲、避、躲、逃都好像是避不过她们。
比如她原先预算好在哪些地方、时间是她们不会出现的才去，神知还是鬼知那些人偏偏就是出现在眼前。
听了她的经历后，我们显然都得了一个结论:有些事情/人物有时真的不是说你要闲或避就能如此.
也许你可以说是天意,缘分,或难听点你也可以称它为因果.因为你前世作孽,所以说她们今世来讨债.哈哈~~
我也给了她一些宝贵意见该如何处理和面对这件事.毕竟,现在的她确实很需要一个能给她意见和忠实的听众。
我很能理解她现在的心情和想法。一个曾经被朋友忽略的人及一些不懂得尊重他人感受的朋友。
也许，她的朋友是无意及一时疏忽了她。但是，人心是脆弱的没有一个人能一直被人忽视而不感到难过，尤其是我们重视的人， 相对的难过会更高，一直到我们的心开始麻木和开始想要离开这没有自己容身之处和不开心的地方。
所以话说回来， 我非常赞成她的选择/决定--就是暂时远离她们，而且越离越远就越好。
因为我觉得她在这一段时间内，需要从新想清楚她们的关系和之间问题，同时间我觉得她也应该要学会如何保护自己的感受和如何调整朋友带来的不愉快。
时间可以淡化一切，但如果真的要继续维持友情，就一定要把误会解开和坦诚相对。
话说回：你是否发现有些人是如何闲、避、躲、逃都好像是避不过的？
我会认为这是一种缘分，也许你们之间真的有误会/冲突，但若能在一个完全没有时间性的安排下重遇，你可知那个八仙率有多高吗？所以我真的希望在看我的blog 的人和我的室友，能看待这重遇是一个机会，一个能解决误会的机会及一个能与好友重逢的机会。
若能再次相见，那不是证明了你们的缘分未尽。
希望大家都学会珍惜、关爱、体谅、宽容及懂得如何面对误会/难题。
Getting Addicted
Well, it may sound so serious but it's real and really happens on the people around me even myself as well also facing this problem. As most of us are getting addicted with Facebook. It's a real voice from my heart. Everyday,there must have a session(time) for me to go to see my pet , play games or leave some comments/ messages to my friends or go there to plant vegetables in Country Story.
It has become part of my life. Sweat, but I know I won't live without it now,haha.
However, this will cause people more prefer to communicate in front of the laptop rather than communicate with each others on face to face.
Anyway, I think I have nothing much to write on this article too. I'm actually listening to songs sang by Bee Gees. Nice songs. Love them ,I has been listened to them since my dad bought Bee Gees many years ago.
Their songs include : how deep is your love, you win again,Staying alive, too much heaven,Saturday night fever, words ,smile, more than a woman ,islands in the streams , heartbreaker ,tragedy, guilty and so on.
If got time please try to listen and see. Sort of their songs are Pop/soft-rock/disco/blue-eyed soul songs.Try ya!!
It has become part of my life. Sweat, but I know I won't live without it now,haha.
However, this will cause people more prefer to communicate in front of the laptop rather than communicate with each others on face to face.
Anyway, I think I have nothing much to write on this article too. I'm actually listening to songs sang by Bee Gees. Nice songs. Love them ,I has been listened to them since my dad bought Bee Gees many years ago.
Their songs include : how deep is your love, you win again,Staying alive, too much heaven,Saturday night fever, words ,smile, more than a woman ,islands in the streams , heartbreaker ,tragedy, guilty and so on.
If got time please try to listen and see. Sort of their songs are Pop/soft-rock/disco/blue-eyed soul songs.Try ya!!
Friday, October 23, 2009
First day of Training
Exhausted, tired, speechless to say anything now.
Actually the training was quite fun and interesting. However, I was really tired after I reached home.
This was not because of the duration of the training but the public transport that I need to take in order to go to the place whereI was training. Waiting for public transport was very wasting time. As you don't know when the bus will come and you can't even expect it to come on time for you.
However, what you can do are go out early or try to take an alternative way to go your destination without rely on the public transport.
So far, everything in the training was considered good and I has made some new friends among the financial advisers and also other Aspirants.
The training was ended at 9 sharp in the night. After it finished, I then went home with my friend by LRT then by bus. Really sick of being waiting. Cause it's really make me feel sick, as the bus didn't move its way until a certain amount of people there. May be I was too tired to wait. Hopefully public transport really can improve better and become more efficient. Don't let me wait for one more minute or moments, cause I think really no mood to wait so. Hence, it was a Tired day for me!!
Actually the training was quite fun and interesting. However, I was really tired after I reached home.
This was not because of the duration of the training but the public transport that I need to take in order to go to the place whereI was training. Waiting for public transport was very wasting time. As you don't know when the bus will come and you can't even expect it to come on time for you.
However, what you can do are go out early or try to take an alternative way to go your destination without rely on the public transport.
So far, everything in the training was considered good and I has made some new friends among the financial advisers and also other Aspirants.
The training was ended at 9 sharp in the night. After it finished, I then went home with my friend by LRT then by bus. Really sick of being waiting. Cause it's really make me feel sick, as the bus didn't move its way until a certain amount of people there. May be I was too tired to wait. Hopefully public transport really can improve better and become more efficient. Don't let me wait for one more minute or moments, cause I think really no mood to wait so. Hence, it was a Tired day for me!!
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Falling for you
New song by Colbie Caillat
Falling for you
I don't know but
I think i maybe
Fallin' for you
Dropping so quickly
Maybe i should
Keep this to myself
Waiting 'til i
Know you better
I am trying
Not to tell you
But i want to
I'm scared of what you'll say
So i'm hiding what i'm feeling
But i'm tired of
Holding this inside my head
I've been spending all my time
Just thinking about ya
I don't know where to
I think i'm fallin' for you
I've been waiting all my life
And now i found ya
I don't know where to
I think i'm fallin' for you
I'm fallin' for you
As i'm standing here
And you hold my hand
Pull me towards you
And we start to dance
All around us
I see nobody
Here in silence
It's just you and me
I'm trying
Not to tell you
But i want to
I'm scared of what you'll say
So i'm hiding what i'm feeling
[ Colbie Caillat Lyrics are found on www.songlyrics.com ]
But i'm tired of
Holding this inside my head
I've been spending all my time
Just thinking about ya
I don't know where to
I think i'm fallin' for you
I've been waiting all my life
And now i found ya
I don't know where to
I think i'm fallin' for you
I'm fallin' for you
Oh i just can't take it
My heart is racing
The emotions keep spinning out
I've been spending all my time
Just thinking about ya
I don't know where to
I think i'm fallin' for you
I've been waiting all my life
And now i found ya
I don't know where to
I think i'm fallin' for you
I'm fallin' for you
I think i'm fallin' for you
I can't stop thinking about it
I want you all around me
And now i just can't hide it
I think i'm fallin' for you (x2)
I'm fallin' for you
Ooohhh
Oh no no
Oooooohhh
Oh i'm fallin' for you
Monday, October 19, 2009
First Day at school
Well, today I don't have any classes. However, I has decided to stay back at my University not to study but to play Facebook games, Pet Society.
I don't know why how come the lines in the internet lab are so lag. And I'm almost fall asleep while I am playing the games.
Pet Society is a nice game so far I'm playing in Facebook. And you really need to spend a lot of times on its in order to earn a lot of coins to buy the stuff you want for your pet.My pet's name is Nicky and it is fun to have a cute pet like it.
But, in the reality I don't own any pets as I'm scare of dogs, cats and any little animals. If I can choose, I will prefer to raise a pet in games rather then an animal in real world as I'm really don't have the knowledge to look after animal. Better still don't raise them rather than harm /kill them in return.
Besides that, I also got a bit of runny nose and sore throat today. It has started since yesterday night when I was back to PJ after I cleaned my room. My nose was sensitive to the dust, therefore I has gotta the runny nose since that and started to have sore throat and cough. Wah,it's really not a good sign in this new semester and I'm really don't want fall sick again. As my average of fall sick is one to two per semester.
Good health is very important, however I'm always fall sick due to the reason I don't have enough time to sleep well and eat well during my study semester. Stressful university life is what I'm having now.
Hopefully everything will get better soon and me myself can recover soon too.
I don't know why how come the lines in the internet lab are so lag. And I'm almost fall asleep while I am playing the games.
Pet Society is a nice game so far I'm playing in Facebook. And you really need to spend a lot of times on its in order to earn a lot of coins to buy the stuff you want for your pet.My pet's name is Nicky and it is fun to have a cute pet like it.
But, in the reality I don't own any pets as I'm scare of dogs, cats and any little animals. If I can choose, I will prefer to raise a pet in games rather then an animal in real world as I'm really don't have the knowledge to look after animal. Better still don't raise them rather than harm /kill them in return.
Besides that, I also got a bit of runny nose and sore throat today. It has started since yesterday night when I was back to PJ after I cleaned my room. My nose was sensitive to the dust, therefore I has gotta the runny nose since that and started to have sore throat and cough. Wah,it's really not a good sign in this new semester and I'm really don't want fall sick again. As my average of fall sick is one to two per semester.
Good health is very important, however I'm always fall sick due to the reason I don't have enough time to sleep well and eat well during my study semester. Stressful university life is what I'm having now.
Hopefully everything will get better soon and me myself can recover soon too.
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Recent life
Well, it has been a couple of week I didn't wrote anything at my blog. Recently, I'm kind of lazy though I got a lot of times to do so. May be my lazy mode is on as Holiday mode is on for me. Really glad that I have my own precious time back, so I can do whatever I want. Sleeping,reading,watching TV, playing or driving the car around the town just keep me from my studies, hate it when I'm think U.
However, my holiday is happened to be ended soon, miss my holiday! I 'm really hope I can have more and more, as I'm really hope I can stay in my comfort zone for more time although I know it's impossible.
Anyway, back to my hometown -Taiping. Haiz, frankly speaking there are a lot of changes in the town. A lot of building like shops & houses are being built and hypermarket like Tesco , Giant & all sort of entertainment central are available there in the town.
But for me this type of changes really don't make me feel happy as everything seem to be changed through times and nothing seem to be remained like last time. Only memories live in my head forever.What I mean is the images of the Taiping that ever knew since when I was small, but now everything has changed due to the development of the town.
Every time when I'm back, my mum sure will tell where have built houses , shops ,hotel....
Really feel like me myself, I am getting outdated with stuffs happened in Taiping.
Honestly, I'm really don't like this type of changes. But, I think it still acceptable as Taiping also need some developments in the town in order to attract more outsiders to invest and live here. And I think this is also has to thank to those developers who doing those projects.
But, for my concerns are: are there really got a lot of demands in the market for housing estate & shops houses or they are just try to put up the values of the markets since some of the locations are situated in a hot spot of the town in order to make more profits?
If their purposes were there, hopefully they make sure there are still green plants around the houses and shops as nowadays global warning like temperature getting high is actually big issues to be discussed around the worlds.
You don't have to look far, just try to look what had happened to our neighbors Indonesia and Taufu in Taiwan & Philippines.The mother of Earth is really sick now, so please try to heal her before its too late!
However, my holiday is happened to be ended soon, miss my holiday! I 'm really hope I can have more and more, as I'm really hope I can stay in my comfort zone for more time although I know it's impossible.
Anyway, back to my hometown -Taiping. Haiz, frankly speaking there are a lot of changes in the town. A lot of building like shops & houses are being built and hypermarket like Tesco , Giant & all sort of entertainment central are available there in the town.
But for me this type of changes really don't make me feel happy as everything seem to be changed through times and nothing seem to be remained like last time. Only memories live in my head forever.What I mean is the images of the Taiping that ever knew since when I was small, but now everything has changed due to the development of the town.
Every time when I'm back, my mum sure will tell where have built houses , shops ,hotel....
Really feel like me myself, I am getting outdated with stuffs happened in Taiping.
Honestly, I'm really don't like this type of changes. But, I think it still acceptable as Taiping also need some developments in the town in order to attract more outsiders to invest and live here. And I think this is also has to thank to those developers who doing those projects.
But, for my concerns are: are there really got a lot of demands in the market for housing estate & shops houses or they are just try to put up the values of the markets since some of the locations are situated in a hot spot of the town in order to make more profits?
If their purposes were there, hopefully they make sure there are still green plants around the houses and shops as nowadays global warning like temperature getting high is actually big issues to be discussed around the worlds.
You don't have to look far, just try to look what had happened to our neighbors Indonesia and Taufu in Taiwan & Philippines.The mother of Earth is really sick now, so please try to heal her before its too late!
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Good Habits with Money
Tonight is another sleepless night again for me. May be today I have slept a lot that's why until now I am also feel very awake. Well, I'm really wonder am I have insomnia?As I'm always have the difficulties to sleep at night unless I was very tired on that particular night.Or may be I have think too hard on something that make me feel awake.
I'm really don't like this type of feelings and situations.Despite of it, sometimes I also will have insomnia if I have think back something sad in the past. But, it's just happens when I saw something or people related to that matters and it was not my wishes to remember back.
For me, this is really no point to remember what mistakes or faults people have done on you as well. And I think I will just to keep them as the mist behind the real story. May be this is the best thing that I ever can do for them and keep myself save from those unnecessary problems.
Back to our topic for today, I just read an article on how do you develop the good financial habits and where do you begin? It is an article I read from the MALAYSIAN BUSINESS Magazine and I think it is good to share at here because I think a good financial planning and habits are very important for every individual.
Here are some of the tips you can used as reference:
On how to manage your personal financial planning
first, you may work it out with a qualified financial planner
second, you may save money and invest consistently
However, due to the fact people are inconsistent with the habits in saving and investing.
That's why here are another four important ways to alter your habits and it is indicated by the philosopher and psychologist William James, according to Charles R Hobbs in his book Time Power.
1. Do not hesitate
2. Set about accomplishing the goals with strongest possible initiative
3. Pursue them daily
4. Never allow an exception to take place
At last,I hope whoever has read this will be able to focus on your saving & investing initiatives and also have a good & consistent habit with money.
I'm really don't like this type of feelings and situations.Despite of it, sometimes I also will have insomnia if I have think back something sad in the past. But, it's just happens when I saw something or people related to that matters and it was not my wishes to remember back.
For me, this is really no point to remember what mistakes or faults people have done on you as well. And I think I will just to keep them as the mist behind the real story. May be this is the best thing that I ever can do for them and keep myself save from those unnecessary problems.
Back to our topic for today, I just read an article on how do you develop the good financial habits and where do you begin? It is an article I read from the MALAYSIAN BUSINESS Magazine and I think it is good to share at here because I think a good financial planning and habits are very important for every individual.
Here are some of the tips you can used as reference:
On how to manage your personal financial planning
first, you may work it out with a qualified financial planner
second, you may save money and invest consistently
However, due to the fact people are inconsistent with the habits in saving and investing.
That's why here are another four important ways to alter your habits and it is indicated by the philosopher and psychologist William James, according to Charles R Hobbs in his book Time Power.
1. Do not hesitate
2. Set about accomplishing the goals with strongest possible initiative
3. Pursue them daily
4. Never allow an exception to take place
At last,I hope whoever has read this will be able to focus on your saving & investing initiatives and also have a good & consistent habit with money.
I Can Wait Forever by Simple Plan
I love this song very much. It is one of the my favorite songs sang by Simple Plan.
"I Can Wait Forever"
You look so beautiful today
When you're sitting there it's hard for me to look away
So i try to find the words that i could say
I know distance doesn't matter but you feel so far away
And I cant lie
Every time I leave my heart turns gray
And I want to come back home to see your face
And I
Cause I just cant take it
Another day without you with me
Is like a blade that cuts right through me
But I can wait
I can wait forever
When you call my heart stops beating
When you're gone it wont stop bleeding
But I can wait
I can wait forever
You look so beautiful today
It's like every time I turn around I see your face
The thing I miss the most is waking up next to you
When I look into your eyes, I wish that I could stay
And I cant lie
Every time I leave my heart turns gray
And I want to come back home to see your face
And I
Cause I just cant take it
Another day without you with me
Is like a blade that cuts right through me
But I can wait
I can wait forever
When you call my heart stops beating
When you're gone it wont stop bleeding
But I can wait
I can wait forever
I know it feels like forever
I guess that's just the price I gotta pay
But when I come back home to feel your touch
Makes it better
Till that day
There's nothing else that I can do
And I just cant take it
I just cant take it
Another day without you with me
Is like a blade that cuts right through me
But i can wait
I can wait forever (I can wait forever)
When you call my heart stops beating
When you're gone it wont stop bleeding
But I can wait
I can wait forever
I can wait forever
I can wait forever...
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
理想中的生活
低调， 平静 ， 简单 ，挑战 ，活力与盛气 ，突破与創新 ，目标 。
想要属于自己的私人空间， 一个不会被人打扰的地方， 好让咱们可以闭目静思。
想要更多时间给自己的家人，如果能希望多陪陪他们。
不论他们是男女或老少，也希望偶尔能当他们的听众与关怀他们。
如果能偶尔出来和老友们一起喝茶聊天，并互相关心彼此最近的状况。
必要也可一起去游玩，增进彼此的感情。
如果能遇到对的人，希望能不妨尝试爱情的甜蜜与被爱的感觉/幸福。
希望遇到的爱情能长久，即使它已过了爱情的甜蜜期。
更重要的是希望每个人都会珍惜身边的人，不要错过了才后悔。
也愿天下的有情人，终成眷属。
想要属于自己的私人空间， 一个不会被人打扰的地方， 好让咱们可以闭目静思。
想要更多时间给自己的家人，如果能希望多陪陪他们。
不论他们是男女或老少，也希望偶尔能当他们的听众与关怀他们。
如果能偶尔出来和老友们一起喝茶聊天，并互相关心彼此最近的状况。
必要也可一起去游玩，增进彼此的感情。
如果能遇到对的人，希望能不妨尝试爱情的甜蜜与被爱的感觉/幸福。
希望遇到的爱情能长久，即使它已过了爱情的甜蜜期。
更重要的是希望每个人都会珍惜身边的人，不要错过了才后悔。
也愿天下的有情人，终成眷属。
Late night
May be due the reason that I have slept for awhile just now, that's why it causes me still very awake and don't sleepy now. What am I going to do in this late night?
You no need to tell me too,as I know that I am writing my blog now. For me , this type of daily routine has became quite a normal life to me as I always sleep 2 hours after my dinner and wake up later that.
Hopefully, I won't get fat if I keep continue doing this. But, I have really no choice as I was too tired after the whole day in school. And yet I think myself will more prefer to study at late night as it is more quiet and that is the only time my brain can absorb and more focus.
Besides, I don't really can't study in the morning or noon as the sun / weather will make me feel sleepy besides no mood except during my lecturer.
As I have said I have nothing to do in this late night, I got myself some readings topics that I searched in Google, then I found some blogs written by some people.The topics were mainly about their loves life. I found it was interesting to read what they wrote at there and some of the stories really touched my heart. Undeniable, I am really made by water. While reading the articles, I found myself cried with the contents in the blogs. Really speechless,I don't even how to describe what types of feelings I was just now and just cried with synopsis of the story.
For you all, it may be sound ridiculous but I really cried with it.Got a bit sweat feelings now, but may be that is my real feelings on the things happened on that author.
I think I'm better off to bed now. Good night.
You no need to tell me too,as I know that I am writing my blog now. For me , this type of daily routine has became quite a normal life to me as I always sleep 2 hours after my dinner and wake up later that.
Hopefully, I won't get fat if I keep continue doing this. But, I have really no choice as I was too tired after the whole day in school. And yet I think myself will more prefer to study at late night as it is more quiet and that is the only time my brain can absorb and more focus.
Besides, I don't really can't study in the morning or noon as the sun / weather will make me feel sleepy besides no mood except during my lecturer.
As I have said I have nothing to do in this late night, I got myself some readings topics that I searched in Google, then I found some blogs written by some people.The topics were mainly about their loves life. I found it was interesting to read what they wrote at there and some of the stories really touched my heart. Undeniable, I am really made by water. While reading the articles, I found myself cried with the contents in the blogs. Really speechless,I don't even how to describe what types of feelings I was just now and just cried with synopsis of the story.
For you all, it may be sound ridiculous but I really cried with it.Got a bit sweat feelings now, but may be that is my real feelings on the things happened on that author.
I think I'm better off to bed now. Good night.
Monday, September 28, 2009
最近常听的歌
南拳妈妈 《下雨天》
下雨天了怎么办 我好想你
不敢打给你 我找不到原因
为什么失眠的声音
变得好熟悉
沉默的场景 做你的代替
陪我听雨滴
期待让人越来越沉迷
谁和我一样
等不到他的谁
爱上你我总在学会
寂寞的滋味
一个人撑伞 一个人擦泪
一个人好累
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大
天要多黑 才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不清那些
彻别 接近还能多一些
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉
期待让人越来越疲惫
谁和我一样
等不到他的谁
爱上你我总在学会
寂寞的滋味
一个人撑伞 一个人擦泪
一个人好累
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大
天要多黑 才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不清那些
彻别 接近还能多一些
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大
天要多黑 才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不清那些
彻别 接近还能多一些
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉
许茹芸& 阿穆隆 《男人女人》
作詞：吳克群
作曲：吳克群
(許)愛愛愛愛了幾回
也明白其中滋味
付出的從來不會等於收回
我卻 還在
等待著誰能出現
(穆)傷傷傷傷了幾回
也曾經為愛憔悴
愛情裡好人總比壞人狼狽
我卻還是學不會
狠心對誰
(許)男人 男人
多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
讓我不必再心疼
(穆)女人 女人
我答應做個好人
我答應用我一生
來換你的快樂一生
(許)愛愛愛愛了幾回
也明白其中滋味
付出的從來不會等於收回
我卻 還在
等待著誰能出現
(穆)傷傷傷傷了幾回
也曾經為愛憔悴
愛情裡好人總比壞人狼狽
(合)我卻還是學不會
狠心 對誰
(許)男人 男人
多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
讓我不必再心疼
(穆)女人 女人
我答應做個好人
我答應用我一生
來換你的快樂一生
(許)男人 男人
多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
讓我不必再心疼
(穆)女人 女人
我答應做個好人
(合)不會再讓我（你）心疼
一等再等
你就是我等的那個人
(穆)男人 男人
(許)女人 女人
(合)多麼希望你是對的人
下雨天了怎么办 我好想你
不敢打给你 我找不到原因
为什么失眠的声音
变得好熟悉
沉默的场景 做你的代替
陪我听雨滴
期待让人越来越沉迷
谁和我一样
等不到他的谁
爱上你我总在学会
寂寞的滋味
一个人撑伞 一个人擦泪
一个人好累
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大
天要多黑 才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不清那些
彻别 接近还能多一些
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉
期待让人越来越疲惫
谁和我一样
等不到他的谁
爱上你我总在学会
寂寞的滋味
一个人撑伞 一个人擦泪
一个人好累
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大
天要多黑 才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不清那些
彻别 接近还能多一些
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大
天要多黑 才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不清那些
彻别 接近还能多一些
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉
许茹芸& 阿穆隆 《男人女人》
作詞：吳克群
作曲：吳克群
(許)愛愛愛愛了幾回
也明白其中滋味
付出的從來不會等於收回
我卻 還在
等待著誰能出現
(穆)傷傷傷傷了幾回
也曾經為愛憔悴
愛情裡好人總比壞人狼狽
我卻還是學不會
狠心對誰
(許)男人 男人
多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
讓我不必再心疼
(穆)女人 女人
我答應做個好人
我答應用我一生
來換你的快樂一生
(許)愛愛愛愛了幾回
也明白其中滋味
付出的從來不會等於收回
我卻 還在
等待著誰能出現
(穆)傷傷傷傷了幾回
也曾經為愛憔悴
愛情裡好人總比壞人狼狽
(合)我卻還是學不會
狠心 對誰
(許)男人 男人
多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
讓我不必再心疼
(穆)女人 女人
我答應做個好人
我答應用我一生
來換你的快樂一生
(許)男人 男人
多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
讓我不必再心疼
(穆)女人 女人
我答應做個好人
(合)不會再讓我（你）心疼
一等再等
你就是我等的那個人
(穆)男人 男人
(許)女人 女人
(合)多麼希望你是對的人
好歌推荐：戴爱玲-对的人
戴爱玲-对的人歌词
你问在我心中 是否还苦恼
那次受伤 否决了爱的好
谢谢你的关照 我一切都好
一个人 不算困扰
爱虽然很美妙 却不能为了寂寞 又陷了泥沼
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)
那次流过的泪 让我学习到
如何祝福 如何转身 不要
在眼泪体会到 与自己拥抱
爱不是一种需要 是一种对照
爱虽然很美妙 却不能为了寂寞 又陷了泥沼
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)
能愿意为了一份爱 付出去多少
然后得到多少并不计较
当我想清楚的时候 我就算已经准备好
放手去爱 海阔天高
喔... 耶...
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)
你问在我心中 是否还苦恼
那次受伤 否决了爱的好
谢谢你的关照 我一切都好
一个人 不算困扰
爱虽然很美妙 却不能为了寂寞 又陷了泥沼
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)
那次流过的泪 让我学习到
如何祝福 如何转身 不要
在眼泪体会到 与自己拥抱
爱不是一种需要 是一种对照
爱虽然很美妙 却不能为了寂寞 又陷了泥沼
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)
能愿意为了一份爱 付出去多少
然后得到多少并不计较
当我想清楚的时候 我就算已经准备好
放手去爱 海阔天高
喔... 耶...
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)
好歌推荐：神木与瞳 - 为你而活
神木与瞳 - 为你而活
歌词
看生命 像阵风 包不住的痛 所以紧握双手
抬起头 那流星般的笑容 只不过 坠落在心中
天空会裂缝 我肩头 添上的爱那麼久 就不怕 滂沱
用眼泪庆贺 跨过了 坚信这一扇门后 真的有 天国
为了你而活 为了你而梦 为了爱我会撑到最后
当世界都乌有 守著你的人是我
为了你而活 为了你而梦 伤痕再深心无法划破
跟命运在逆流 就算错了 也不退后
不闪躲 在这荆棘遍布中 那伤口 会开出花朵
天空会裂缝 我肩头 添上的爱那麼重 就不怕 滂沱
用眼泪庆贺 跨过了 坚信这一扇门后 真的有 天国
为了你而活 为了你而梦 为了爱我会撑到最后
当世界都乌有 守著你的人是我
为了你而活 为了你而梦 伤痕再深心无法划破
跟命运在逆流 就算错了 也不退后
为了你而活 为了你而梦 为了爱我会撑到最后
当世界都乌有 守著你的人是我
为了你而活 为了你而梦 伤痕再深心无法划破
跟命运在逆流 就算错了 也不退后
歌词
看生命 像阵风 包不住的痛 所以紧握双手
抬起头 那流星般的笑容 只不过 坠落在心中
天空会裂缝 我肩头 添上的爱那麼久 就不怕 滂沱
用眼泪庆贺 跨过了 坚信这一扇门后 真的有 天国
为了你而活 为了你而梦 为了爱我会撑到最后
当世界都乌有 守著你的人是我
为了你而活 为了你而梦 伤痕再深心无法划破
跟命运在逆流 就算错了 也不退后
不闪躲 在这荆棘遍布中 那伤口 会开出花朵
天空会裂缝 我肩头 添上的爱那麼重 就不怕 滂沱
用眼泪庆贺 跨过了 坚信这一扇门后 真的有 天国
为了你而活 为了你而梦 为了爱我会撑到最后
当世界都乌有 守著你的人是我
为了你而活 为了你而梦 伤痕再深心无法划破
跟命运在逆流 就算错了 也不退后
为了你而活 为了你而梦 为了爱我会撑到最后
当世界都乌有 守著你的人是我
为了你而活 为了你而梦 伤痕再深心无法划破
跟命运在逆流 就算错了 也不退后
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two
This is an article I took from my mail.Just feel like want to share with my friends / people at here.So, please read and absorb them as some of the proverbs in life.
Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two
小心讀每一個，再用一兩秒想一想
1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。
3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。
4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。
5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。
6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。
7.. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。
8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。
9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。
10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。
11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。
12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。
13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。
REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
緊記: 所有事也是因果循環的。
True friends: How many people actually have 8 true friends?
真正朋友: 有幾多人有八位真正的朋友?
Hardly anyone I know ! But some of us have all right friends and good friends!!!
我幾乎不認識這些人! 但在我們當中有些人全有對和好的朋友!!!
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Being happy is the priority of living,
If u wanna be sad,
Be sad 4 something thats worth it.
珍惜你所擁有的，慶幸所曾發生的。
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Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two
小心讀每一個，再用一兩秒想一想
1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。
3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。
4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。
5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。
6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。
7.. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。
8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。
9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。
10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。
11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。
12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。
13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。
REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
緊記: 所有事也是因果循環的。
True friends: How many people actually have 8 true friends?
真正朋友: 有幾多人有八位真正的朋友?
Hardly anyone I know ! But some of us have all right friends and good friends!!!
我幾乎不認識這些人! 但在我們當中有些人全有對和好的朋友!!!
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Being happy is the priority of living,
If u wanna be sad,
Be sad 4 something thats worth it.
珍惜你所擁有的，慶幸所曾發生的。
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相爱容易相处难 ，分手时还是要学会放手
其实， 我会把这文章贴上是有原因的。因为身边的室友经常和男友吵架， 不只是单纯地闹情趣，感觉上好像都是她在骂她男友。有时连我们这些旁人听到都会为她担心。难到这就是情侣之间的情趣？这我真的没兴趣想知道，只是如果你每天都会听到别人在聊电话时都是在吵架， 那真的是有够纳闷咯！一：是担心她。二：是觉得那又何必呢？
难到情侣间一定要这吵吵闹闹吗？如果真的相爱不是更应该互相迁就和包容吗？
也许这就是相爱容易相处难的道理。但好在她男友能忍让她，要不我看这对恋人肯定完蛋了。
以下这编文章是我在百度那找来的，觉得很有意思所以就贴在这里。内容如何本人就无意见啦，只是纯粹贴在和人分享，这并非本人个人观点。
相爱容易相处难 ，分手时还是要学会放手
●男人都喜欢自己能保护她的女人，都喜欢自己的另一半是依赖自己的，即使女人是比他强的。可是过于依赖就成了对方的拖累，什么事情都要依赖对方，就成了对方的负担，会让对方想逃跑。
●男人年轻的时候往往喜欢漂亮的女子，25岁以后，会选择和自己性格合适的女子，能和自己一起过日子的人。
●相爱容易相处难。相处中最重要的是宽容和妥协，在信任和了解的基础上。没有宽容和妥协，任何两个人都无法相处。
●有两个人甚至更多的人爱上了你，你谁也不想伤害，而恰恰是你暧昧的态度，会让他们都受到伤害。这样的爱是自私的。
●失恋对人的打击是极其沉重的，尤其在一个人20岁左右真情初动时。
●爱情中棋逢对手最好。如果一个人根本就不是你的对手，那么这样的生活是很乏味的。他(她)一味地顺从你，会让你感到很累。他(她)如果老是给你泼凉水，打击你，这样在一起还不如去监狱更好受一些。只有相互欣赏相互佩服各有所长的人，才会碰撞出最美丽的爱情火花。
●当一个人要离开时，你选择放他(她)走，还是缠着他(她)不放？他(她)不爱你的时候就是不爱你了，能缠住他(她)的人，能缠住他(她)的心吗？
●分手后最好不要做朋友。剪不断，理还乱。过去了就过去了，我们不是生活在过去，而是现在。
●“不会有真爱了，这辈子我就爱他(她)一人。”一个人在刚失恋时会对自己这样说。实际上自己也知道不可能与他(她)在一起了，只是不甘心过去那么多付出。不过，时间会抚平一切伤痕。
难到情侣间一定要这吵吵闹闹吗？如果真的相爱不是更应该互相迁就和包容吗？
也许这就是相爱容易相处难的道理。但好在她男友能忍让她，要不我看这对恋人肯定完蛋了。
以下这编文章是我在百度那找来的，觉得很有意思所以就贴在这里。内容如何本人就无意见啦，只是纯粹贴在和人分享，这并非本人个人观点。
相爱容易相处难 ，分手时还是要学会放手
●男人都喜欢自己能保护她的女人，都喜欢自己的另一半是依赖自己的，即使女人是比他强的。可是过于依赖就成了对方的拖累，什么事情都要依赖对方，就成了对方的负担，会让对方想逃跑。
●男人年轻的时候往往喜欢漂亮的女子，25岁以后，会选择和自己性格合适的女子，能和自己一起过日子的人。
●相爱容易相处难。相处中最重要的是宽容和妥协，在信任和了解的基础上。没有宽容和妥协，任何两个人都无法相处。
●有两个人甚至更多的人爱上了你，你谁也不想伤害，而恰恰是你暧昧的态度，会让他们都受到伤害。这样的爱是自私的。
●失恋对人的打击是极其沉重的，尤其在一个人20岁左右真情初动时。
●爱情中棋逢对手最好。如果一个人根本就不是你的对手，那么这样的生活是很乏味的。他(她)一味地顺从你，会让你感到很累。他(她)如果老是给你泼凉水，打击你，这样在一起还不如去监狱更好受一些。只有相互欣赏相互佩服各有所长的人，才会碰撞出最美丽的爱情火花。
●当一个人要离开时，你选择放他(她)走，还是缠着他(她)不放？他(她)不爱你的时候就是不爱你了，能缠住他(她)的人，能缠住他(她)的心吗？
●分手后最好不要做朋友。剪不断，理还乱。过去了就过去了，我们不是生活在过去，而是现在。
●“不会有真爱了，这辈子我就爱他(她)一人。”一个人在刚失恋时会对自己这样说。实际上自己也知道不可能与他(她)在一起了，只是不甘心过去那么多付出。不过，时间会抚平一切伤痕。
Friday, September 25, 2009
幸福就在…
1.拋開所有的不重要的數字，包括年齡，體重，身高。
2.與快樂的人為友，心懷不滿的人會讓你消沉。
3.堅持不懈地學習。
4.從小事中找到樂趣。
5.開懷大笑，笑到不能自拔。
6.想哭就哭。
7.讓你愛的人和事環繞著你
8.珍愛你的健康。
9.不要踏上罪惡之路。
10.告訴你愛的人 "我愛你 "，珍惜每一個機會。
保持年輕的25招
This following article is not written by me. I took it out from the mail I received in my mail box. I just feel like it should be share to my friends at here to read.So, who is the original author for this article frankly speaking I also don't know. Just try to read as references.^_^
保持年輕的25招
1.喝水助消化
您會喝水嗎？這是個傻問題，但，要怎麼喝？喝多少？什麼時候喝？都是大學問。
對愛美的女性來說，水份充足是保持美麗的秘訣，但也不必過量一天約1500C.C.就足夠了，至於口渴，是身體給你的警訊，一定要補充水份。用餐時，喝水可以降低飢餓感，使進食速度減緩，可以減輕胃的負擔，促進良好消化。
2.高鐵高鈣奶粉最好分開食用
高 鐵高鈣奶粉近來頗受歡迎，高鐵的奶粉是為女性設計的，而高鈣則為30歲以上鈣質流失迅速的消費者設計。不少廠商推出高鐵高鈣二合一奶粉，甚至有些還特別強 調又多加了維他命C，讓消費者一次吸收多種營養。不過專家表示奶粉中如果含大量鈣質會不利於鐵質的吸收，如果還加了維他命C來補強吸收力，反而會扭曲牛奶 的營養。所以，最好分別食用，以利吸收。
3.睡眠的黃金時段：晚間10時上床，抵過從凌晨3時睡到正午的效果
有 人說：晚上12時前的1小時，抵得過12時以後的2小時，這是體驗，「早睡並且睡得好」的人的說法。事實上，到了深夜2時至2時半，生理的律動會降低，體 溫、呼吸、脈摶及全身的代謝都降至最低，從午夜零時至3時之間，給予身心刺激的腎上腺素及副腎皮質賀爾蒙，也顯現了不到早晨巔峰的1/3的最低值。因此從 神經賀爾蒙的週期來看，午夜零時至3時是最有效率的睡眠時間這個說法的確無誤。換句話說，這段時間是睡眠的黃金時間（掌管晝夜週期，特別是夜間週期的，是 位於腦中、稱為松果體的賀爾蒙所分泌的物質）。想要獲得有效的睡眠，最好在深夜前兩小時上床，這個時間是晚間十時。這個睡眠的黃金時段，甚至可抵從凌晨三 時睡到正午的效果。如果這個「睡眠與活動的節奏」紊亂，身體狀況不好，便容易生病，這種情形在鳥獸更是明顯。人類如果沒有得到充分的睡眠，第二天便會慵懶 想睡、工作不起勁、頭腦昏沉。
睡眠不足如果持續，工作便做不好，錯誤及事故的發生率增高、健康受阻，開始出現慢性病及成人病。睡眠對一個 人的健康來說，是非常重要的。早晨醒得早是老年人的特徵，這是因為隨著年齡的增加，70歲左右則為6小時，到了80歲，大約5小時即可。因此，有人以為老 人如果儘量縮短睡眠時間能長命，這真是很大的錯誤。睡眠充足才是長命的必要條件。熬夜對年輕人不好，對老年人更不好。
我們曾對120位長命者的就寢時間進行調查後發現：
（1）晚上八時就寢.....46人（2）晚上九時就寢.....35人（3）晚上十時就寢....29人
（4）晚上六時就寢.....8人（5）晚上十二時就寢.....2人。
因 此我們可以發現，長命的人幾乎都在夜間8時至10時就寢。早睡雖然好，但是6、7點左右就上床，半夜裡醒來之後便不容易睡著。事實上，人體的週期也很重 要，最好不要做大幅度的改變。睡得好的人，工作有幹勁--睡得好，疲勞解除，身心就會活潑健康。只要健康，身心沒有疾病，就能睡得好。像這樣睡眠與健康的 良性循環，就是長命之道。
4.潛意識自認老，身體也會跟著老
根據最近的研究，女性生理上的賀爾蒙平衡而 臻於成熟是在30歲時，40歲仍在上升中，50歲時肉體及精神上都處於顛峰狀態。女性若也順其自然的話，40歲時仍然很年輕。因為以前在精神上被迫認老， 連身體也跟著提早衰老，更年期的煩腦便產生，月經也隨之而停。因此，我們可以瞭解，更年期的障礙可以說是一種心情的產物。這種情形，也發生在男性身上，這 時便稱為「男性更年期」。當然，他們不會有停經的問題，但是因為精神狀態的關係，全身病痛齊出，焦躁不安，伴隨而來的是性生活的不如意。羅馬哲人塞泥加曾 說：
「女人的年齡如其外表，男人的年齡則一如他自已所感覺到的。」的確如此。女人如果心理年輕，則肉體也會年輕起來；男人的心情則表現在年齡」。
5.多作運動
每天早上做點運動挺好，但不能費時太久，也能太枯燥，更不能太耗體力。跳繩是最好的選擇。現在還有一種可以調整重量的跳繩，順便訓練臂力和腕力一舉數得。
6.想懷孕嗎？不要吃太多豆芽
英國一份研究報告指出，豆芽中含有植物性動情激素，正值懷孕年齡的女性吃太多豆芽（也就是一天吃超過60公克）容易引起月經?蕊獺受孕不易。然而，根據1996年7月美國兩份研究報告指出，豆芽有預防及治療骨質疏鬆的功效。所以，一週吃兩次豆芽，攝取量剛剛好，多吃無益。
7.多吃蔬果可抗癌
蔬菜水果具有抗癌的作用，多吃有益無害。不論生食或煮熟，一天蔬菜應食用300至500公克，水果200至300公克。最有益的是綠葉蔬菜、洋蔥、覆盆子、櫻桃、李子和蘋果。
8.維他命B群補腦
維他命Ｂ群對腦力活動非常重要。如果睡眠品質不好，多吃新鮮蔬果，它們富含維他命B6。增強記憶力需要維他命B6，以促進神經方面的協調，多吃穀類、蘋果、葡萄，維他命B6必須和鎂互相配合，所以巧克力、小麥胚芽、乾果、胚芽米是最好的選擇。
9.多吃黑麥麵包，減低動脈血壓
黑麥麵包富含纖維，可減低動脈血壓，增進血液中糖代謝。根據一項美國芬蘭合作研究指出，每天吃30克的黑麥麵包對健康有益。
10.多喝綠茶，健康常綠
綠茶好處多多，利尿、預防腹瀉、降低膽固醇，甚至有預防腸癌和食道癌的功效，好處多多。
11.早上去看牙，比較耐痛
如果要和牙醫訂約會，早上比晚上來得適合。因為傍晚開始，人的心理狀態會比較脆、焦慮、緊張，忍受痛苦的耐力也比較差，要看牙醫，早上比較好。
12.吃人參，消除疲勞
大家都知道人參補身，因為人參精可以降低膽固醇、增加活動力、促進睡眠、消除疲勞和焦慮、讓你專心不易分神。
13.想吃糖嗎？餐後吃一點，贅肉少一些
身體對糖的需求也不可忽視，與其下午茶吃下大量的巧克力，不如餐後吃一點糖果，比較不會在屁股顯示肥胖效力，單獨吃糖，容易馬上形成脂肪，而且驅之不去。
14.來點巧克力，減低焦慮
巧克力不只好吃，也能減低焦慮。根據美國加州大學一個研究小組的報告顯示，巧克力和紅葡萄酒一樣，具有抗氧化（防老）的作用。一小塊巧克力沾點紅葡萄酒吃，好處多多嘍？不過為身材著想，最好不要過量。
15.按摩鼻尖，放鬆神經，促進消化
這個簡單的小動作可以減輕所有輕微的消化毛病，例如：脹氣、消化不良。用力以手心壓住鼻尖，以不痛為原則，以畫圓周般按摩30秒，鼻子按摩能放鬆神經，促進消化，不妨一試！
16.配合體能作息：早上7點至11點，或晚上5點至9點工作效率高
人身體器官的活動，有它的時間表，如果有耗費腦力或體力的事，應該排在早上7點至11點，或晚上5點至9點。下午1點至3點是身體最鬆懈的時候，在這段時間內，可以稍事休息，這樣比打一場網球更能放鬆心情。
17.不要吃入過量的鋁，甚至鋁箔包飲料
鋁是導致老年癡呆症的元凶之一。鋁的來源，首要是飲水；其次，來自煮菜用的鋁製鍋碗。根據挪威一個研究結果指出，目前75％至95％的販售飲料都是鋁箔包裝，但是酸性強的飲料不適合裝在鋁箔包內。甚至，廚房用的鋁箔紙都應該減少用量，能用保鮮膜的還是用保鮮膜比較好。
18.冰凍熊寶寶，鼻子不過敏
如果你一抱熊寶寶就噴嚏不停，可能是對毛毛的玩具過敏。最新的過敏醫學報告指出，對這種情形，有個簡單又有效的方法：把熊寶寶擺在冷凍庫中，至少一夜，一個星期一次，冷溫會剷除所有的過敏原。
19.定期健康檢查
不要等生了病才去醫院檢查，平日就應該定時做健康檢查。平日的健康檢查並不會太繁瑣，血液和醫生覺得需要的檢查，省事又安心。小小的舉動卻減少很多危險，詢問你的保險是否給付健康檢查的費用。
20.老祖母的秘方很受用
快感冒時，喝薑湯，裹著被子冒汗；偏頭痛按摩太陽穴，搽萬金油；當歸人參去寒，枸杞明目，這些老人家的偏方，醫學界繞了一大圈才證實它們的可靠性，多聽老人言，對身體只有好處。
21.少穿高跟鞋，避免尿失禁
尤其是細高跟鞋，對健康有害無益。據「協助失禁患者協會」的統計報告，穿過高的高跟鞋不但易造成腳踝移位，也可能造成大小便失禁的問題。
22.作個森林浴
把心情掏空，讓氧氣充滿腦部和心房，芬多精之旅使人心曠神怡。
23.充足的光線，防止情緒低潮
光線有防止憂鬱的功用。光線愈弱，人的情緒愈低潮。因為光線會刺激體內色胺的產生，色胺令人情緒高昂、氣色飽滿，所以攝影師拍人物照時會打強光，就是這個原因。尤其在秋冬二季，把電燈開亮一點，有助心情愉快。但是要切記，不可以過度曝曬在陽光下。
24.為室內空氣保濕
冬季空氣乾燥，喉嚨容易乾澀發炎。空氣溼度介於45至65％間最舒適宜人；如果室內溼度太低，可以放一杯水，加幾滴香精使滿室生香，或是購買空氣加濕器為濕度加把勁。
25.傾聽海濤聲，人造海濤也無妨
最能讓心情放鬆的，莫過於聽水波聲、浪濤拍岸、海鷗叫聲。如無法親臨海邊，也可找張收錄這些美好聲音的情境音樂CD，一天工作完，聽聽這張CD，儘管身處鬧市，也宛如身在海畔。
如果你要改變你的生活，你必須開始改變你的思想。
Beautiful scene in Pulau Tioman
These are some of the photos took by my friends while my class trip to Pulau Tioman in this last May 2009.
Suddenly, I feel like want to post some pictures at here as I feel my blog is lack of some pictures and has a lot of words like here is a comprehensive / composition site.
It is a beautiful sun raising scene in the sea. My friend took it before we reached the Tioman Island.
Suddenly, I feel like want to post some pictures at here as I feel my blog is lack of some pictures and has a lot of words like here is a comprehensive / composition site.
It is a beautiful sun raising scene in the sea. My friend took it before we reached the Tioman Island.
Doing research
Well, I'm now doing a research on all the stuffs that I wanted in my life.
It's actually the task given to me while I go for interview.Just like what I had mentioned in my previous post -interview experience, everything need to be measurable, specified. Therefore, I' m now searching for all the present values for the things that I listed out.
I feel Damn sick on this, as I have one more subject to go in my final exam. While worrying about the test, I need to spend my times on doing this research.
Everything need to be done before the deadline. When thinking about this task, it makes me feel worrying about my studies. And when I am studying, my minds keep telling me about the research on the task.This kind of feelings really weird and full worry.
I will feel guilty if either of them, I can't do it with well.
Really sick now.... with the busy life I having now.
It's actually the task given to me while I go for interview.Just like what I had mentioned in my previous post -interview experience, everything need to be measurable, specified. Therefore, I' m now searching for all the present values for the things that I listed out.
I feel Damn sick on this, as I have one more subject to go in my final exam. While worrying about the test, I need to spend my times on doing this research.
Everything need to be done before the deadline. When thinking about this task, it makes me feel worrying about my studies. And when I am studying, my minds keep telling me about the research on the task.This kind of feelings really weird and full worry.
I will feel guilty if either of them, I can't do it with well.
Really sick now.... with the busy life I having now.
Love & To be loved
Love and to be loved by someone.
I think this is very a good topic to be discussed in our life.
For me, love is not an easy topic.For my thought,you need to know the person you love, try to understand them on what are theirs needs,dreams,hobbies and things that he/she dislike/like.
Besides these, I think loyalty, respectful and trusts are the important things in any relationships. These are the elements that need in a relationship in order to build a strong bond with your BF/GF in your life.
Back to our topic for today , love and to be loved. I think it depends on how you see and think about it.As some of the people will prefer to be loved by someone than they love their couple.It doesn't means that they are not in love with the partner but what can says is they are not really get into the relationship or they just need someone there to accompany them or may be they will act more careless while handling with that particular relationship.
On the other hand,love is the feeling you fall for someone.When you fall for someone I think most of your times you are thinking about that person and you want to share everything with him/her not matters good or bad and try to be with your love ones. These are the basic things, I think most of the people know. So, I will not try to emphasis much on this.What you can do is just follow your feelings. Let it lead you to the special ones in your life.
Well, I got some questions here to ask? If you have given a chance to choose either to love someone or being loved by someone, which ones you will more preferable?
Or your answer will be both being loved and love the person?
Obviously, this is a very subjective question and it may comes out with all sort of answers or opinions from different people with different type of thinking and their own stands on love.
Hence,there are not perfect answer for this topic. However, the important messages I want to bring up today is please appreciate your love ones and care about him/her and don't bother about who loves who more than the other or ignore/hurt their feelings. As these are the easy/silly mistakes always did by the couple and causes many misunderstands and arguments start.
My advice for those misunderstands/ arguments are please cool down and communicate with each others. As different people has different judgment/point of views/ stands, so what is the best solution is sit down and chat. Try to stand at the point of other people and try to think the ways they think. If you do like this , I'm sure you will know why they are doing that and you also will become a more tolerate and considerate person in your life not only dueling with your relationship but also in others human communications.
I think this is very a good topic to be discussed in our life.
For me, love is not an easy topic.For my thought,you need to know the person you love, try to understand them on what are theirs needs,dreams,hobbies and things that he/she dislike/like.
Besides these, I think loyalty, respectful and trusts are the important things in any relationships. These are the elements that need in a relationship in order to build a strong bond with your BF/GF in your life.
Back to our topic for today , love and to be loved. I think it depends on how you see and think about it.As some of the people will prefer to be loved by someone than they love their couple.It doesn't means that they are not in love with the partner but what can says is they are not really get into the relationship or they just need someone there to accompany them or may be they will act more careless while handling with that particular relationship.
On the other hand,love is the feeling you fall for someone.When you fall for someone I think most of your times you are thinking about that person and you want to share everything with him/her not matters good or bad and try to be with your love ones. These are the basic things, I think most of the people know. So, I will not try to emphasis much on this.What you can do is just follow your feelings. Let it lead you to the special ones in your life.
Well, I got some questions here to ask? If you have given a chance to choose either to love someone or being loved by someone, which ones you will more preferable?
Or your answer will be both being loved and love the person?
Obviously, this is a very subjective question and it may comes out with all sort of answers or opinions from different people with different type of thinking and their own stands on love.
Hence,there are not perfect answer for this topic. However, the important messages I want to bring up today is please appreciate your love ones and care about him/her and don't bother about who loves who more than the other or ignore/hurt their feelings. As these are the easy/silly mistakes always did by the couple and causes many misunderstands and arguments start.
My advice for those misunderstands/ arguments are please cool down and communicate with each others. As different people has different judgment/point of views/ stands, so what is the best solution is sit down and chat. Try to stand at the point of other people and try to think the ways they think. If you do like this , I'm sure you will know why they are doing that and you also will become a more tolerate and considerate person in your life not only dueling with your relationship but also in others human communications.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Privacy In Internet
I think Privacy is a very basic thing people need in life. For me, privacy can be very subjective and depends on that particular person needs. The reason I try to share this out at my blog today are because I got received some of the irritated email in my mail box previously.
Frankly speaking, I think most of the sender found my profile through the Google search/ free mail search. Most of the contents of were mainly about they want to become my friends and some was even worse as they tended to build up a relationship with me. For my thought, it is really OMG-Oh My God!! Because some of the email were spam.
I'm not try to be over-reacted for what had happened. But, what I trying to issue at here is the privacy in internet. I think we really need to put all the settings in well-manned or if you do not want to expose your full profile in the net, I think you really need to read through all the rules & regulations / settings in your profile before you click on the button.
This is just to make sure your personal details are being protected by the settings that you have made. So, if can please try to read all the settings that you can change in any website like Facebook, Friendster or your own space. It is better put your profile in a protective settings rather than you will receive a lot of spam or junk mails in your mail box.
Frankly speaking, I think most of the sender found my profile through the Google search/ free mail search. Most of the contents of were mainly about they want to become my friends and some was even worse as they tended to build up a relationship with me. For my thought, it is really OMG-Oh My God!! Because some of the email were spam.
I'm not try to be over-reacted for what had happened. But, what I trying to issue at here is the privacy in internet. I think we really need to put all the settings in well-manned or if you do not want to expose your full profile in the net, I think you really need to read through all the rules & regulations / settings in your profile before you click on the button.
This is just to make sure your personal details are being protected by the settings that you have made. So, if can please try to read all the settings that you can change in any website like Facebook, Friendster or your own space. It is better put your profile in a protective settings rather than you will receive a lot of spam or junk mails in your mail box.
Amazed by you
I love this song very much, as it's really make me feel love. I mean the passionate love when you are fall for someone. So, I think it will be great to post it at here and share with my friends.
Here is the lyrics for Amazed by you which sang by Lonestar
Every time our eyes meet
This feeling inside me
Is almost more than I can take
Baby when you touch me
I can feel how much you love me
And it just blows me away
Ive never been this close to anyone or anything
I can hear your thoughts
I can see your dreams
I dont know how you do what you do
Im so in love with you
It just keeps getting better
I wanna spend the rest of my life
With you by my side
Forever and ever
Every little thing that you do
Baby Im amazed by you
The smell of your skin
The taste of your kiss
The way you whisper in the dark
Your hair all around me
Baby you surround me
You touch every place in my heart
Oh it feels like the first time every time
I wanna spend the whole night in your eyes
I dont know how you do what you do
Im so in love with you
It just keeps getting better
I wanna spend the rest of my life
With you by my side
Forever and ever
Every little thing that you do
Baby Im amazed by you
Every little thing that you do
Im so in love with you
It just keeps getting better
I wanna spend the rest of my life
With you by my side
Forever and ever
Every little thing that you do
Oh, every little thing that you do
Baby Im amazed by you.
Here is the lyrics for Amazed by you which sang by Lonestar
Every time our eyes meet
This feeling inside me
Is almost more than I can take
Baby when you touch me
I can feel how much you love me
And it just blows me away
Ive never been this close to anyone or anything
I can hear your thoughts
I can see your dreams
I dont know how you do what you do
Im so in love with you
It just keeps getting better
I wanna spend the rest of my life
With you by my side
Forever and ever
Every little thing that you do
Baby Im amazed by you
The smell of your skin
The taste of your kiss
The way you whisper in the dark
Your hair all around me
Baby you surround me
You touch every place in my heart
Oh it feels like the first time every time
I wanna spend the whole night in your eyes
I dont know how you do what you do
Im so in love with you
It just keeps getting better
I wanna spend the rest of my life
With you by my side
Forever and ever
Every little thing that you do
Baby Im amazed by you
Every little thing that you do
Im so in love with you
It just keeps getting better
I wanna spend the rest of my life
With you by my side
Forever and ever
Every little thing that you do
Oh, every little thing that you do
Baby Im amazed by you.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Interview Experience
As what have mentioned on the above title , I'm now trying to write out some of the feelings and experiences I got from my first interview in last Saturday.
The weather on that day was good with slightly drop of rains.
Everything so far was good. And I managed to reach before 12 noon as what have told.
Due to the reason that, me and my friend were having the same interview on the same day and times. Therefore, the interviewee said he will do both interview together.
At the beginning of the interview, he asked us some questions on the task the company had given to us at previous before we went to interview. We then answered all the questions he asked. Later, he read through the resume my friends wrote. I think I had made a big mistake for not preparing a resume during the interview.However, I managed to provide some of the exam certificate of mine to him.
After that, he tried to ask us more on the activities or events we took place from primary school till university.I don't think I was performing well in this section as I was not only nervous but my conversation really not that smooth as usual I talked with my friends.
When all the process above finished , he then started to explain our strength and weakness with us as well as the tasks we have done.
He really has gave us a lot of useful and knowledgeable information to us in financial planning.
You must be SMART during doing a good financial planning.
S-Specified M-Measurable A-Attainable R-Realistic T-Time Bond
The interview ended with the we are given a second chance to redo all the tasks as he saw a potential on our strength.
But, my own feelings after all this interview.I felt this interviewee was a very different way of employer and the ways he did the interview were unique as he was looking for people with a specified strength, high ambitious, realistic and can have fun.
I think his aims are to educate more young talent people to gain high profit with all the financial planning skills he got. And frankly speaking, I think he was a very money minded with good minds set as he is investing on those people to earn money at the same times.
I don't know whether I still want to make myself go move into the company or not. This is because the employer is training people to make a big profit like 100K in 3 years time and more on build up their own business.
I am not saying I don't want to become rich, but it's really realistic stuff and I have never been think so far as my self-esteem is normal and I am not an ambitious person.
Hence, this interview really has made alert about the power of money and its value in different people's minds.
The weather on that day was good with slightly drop of rains.
Everything so far was good. And I managed to reach before 12 noon as what have told.
Due to the reason that, me and my friend were having the same interview on the same day and times. Therefore, the interviewee said he will do both interview together.
At the beginning of the interview, he asked us some questions on the task the company had given to us at previous before we went to interview. We then answered all the questions he asked. Later, he read through the resume my friends wrote. I think I had made a big mistake for not preparing a resume during the interview.However, I managed to provide some of the exam certificate of mine to him.
After that, he tried to ask us more on the activities or events we took place from primary school till university.I don't think I was performing well in this section as I was not only nervous but my conversation really not that smooth as usual I talked with my friends.
When all the process above finished , he then started to explain our strength and weakness with us as well as the tasks we have done.
He really has gave us a lot of useful and knowledgeable information to us in financial planning.
You must be SMART during doing a good financial planning.
S-Specified M-Measurable A-Attainable R-Realistic T-Time Bond
The interview ended with the we are given a second chance to redo all the tasks as he saw a potential on our strength.
But, my own feelings after all this interview.I felt this interviewee was a very different way of employer and the ways he did the interview were unique as he was looking for people with a specified strength, high ambitious, realistic and can have fun.
I think his aims are to educate more young talent people to gain high profit with all the financial planning skills he got. And frankly speaking, I think he was a very money minded with good minds set as he is investing on those people to earn money at the same times.
I don't know whether I still want to make myself go move into the company or not. This is because the employer is training people to make a big profit like 100K in 3 years time and more on build up their own business.
I am not saying I don't want to become rich, but it's really realistic stuff and I have never been think so far as my self-esteem is normal and I am not an ambitious person.
Hence, this interview really has made alert about the power of money and its value in different people's minds.
Home Sweet Home
There is really no place like where in your home in this world.
As this is the place where your parents and relatives are and the place where you can find peaceful and comfort that you always wanted in your life.
May be I have been a long times do not come back, as I am busy with my studies in my university. I'm really glad I am home again right now, as when I' m back to my home I can talk and spend my times with my parents and relatives. While having a small talk with them, I can share of my things with them and also know what is happens on them as well. So, I do believe that everything like friendship, relationship or partnership can change except the family bonds can't break even you are argue with your parents. I don't think there is any love greater than a love from your parents.
Frankly speaking, even you may say relationship is also important as well too as your girlfriend/boyfriend will be part of your partner.But ,who knows he/she will leave you in the half way and abandon due to some of the reasons. The reasons are not what I'm going to discuss now, but just the fact that who is the person will be there for you no matters what is happens and going on.
I think if you had really faced some of the bad situation like you are in trouble , I think your own parents will be the most supportive person who stand on your back to support you.Your home is the place where always open up to you and your dad & mum are always be there to welcome you.
I 'm really love my dad & mum , aunty ,granny , as they really make me feel want to go home.
Even though, I will tell myself my studies are more important and I must stay back to study till the final exam are ended.
Every times I am back my heart will tell me not to leave here soon and try to stay as long as I can.However, I know I can't stay long here too due to I still have my stuff to do and my future destiny is waiting for me. I'm really can't make myself keep staying in this comfort zone but to move on with my life.
I'm really hope young people like us will think more about our parents and home. The place where we are coming from when we are small till big.The place we growing up ,studying in primary school till secondary school before we entered our college and university and later working in the real world.
And remember that it was never too late to go home now and tell your parents that you love them.
As this is the place where your parents and relatives are and the place where you can find peaceful and comfort that you always wanted in your life.
May be I have been a long times do not come back, as I am busy with my studies in my university. I'm really glad I am home again right now, as when I' m back to my home I can talk and spend my times with my parents and relatives. While having a small talk with them, I can share of my things with them and also know what is happens on them as well. So, I do believe that everything like friendship, relationship or partnership can change except the family bonds can't break even you are argue with your parents. I don't think there is any love greater than a love from your parents.
Frankly speaking, even you may say relationship is also important as well too as your girlfriend/boyfriend will be part of your partner.But ,who knows he/she will leave you in the half way and abandon due to some of the reasons. The reasons are not what I'm going to discuss now, but just the fact that who is the person will be there for you no matters what is happens and going on.
I think if you had really faced some of the bad situation like you are in trouble , I think your own parents will be the most supportive person who stand on your back to support you.Your home is the place where always open up to you and your dad & mum are always be there to welcome you.
I 'm really love my dad & mum , aunty ,granny , as they really make me feel want to go home.
Even though, I will tell myself my studies are more important and I must stay back to study till the final exam are ended.
Every times I am back my heart will tell me not to leave here soon and try to stay as long as I can.However, I know I can't stay long here too due to I still have my stuff to do and my future destiny is waiting for me. I'm really can't make myself keep staying in this comfort zone but to move on with my life.
I'm really hope young people like us will think more about our parents and home. The place where we are coming from when we are small till big.The place we growing up ,studying in primary school till secondary school before we entered our college and university and later working in the real world.
And remember that it was never too late to go home now and tell your parents that you love them.
Friday, September 18, 2009
Short break now.....
Tonight is a wonderful night for me, as I 'm finally can have a short break to rest and do my stuff rather than just keep on my studies. Really sweat and tired if I need to study again after I had spent almost two weeks in studying. Still left one more subject to go, then I can finally have my holidays.
So now I just hope I can do nothing but blogging at here. By the way, tomorrow there will be an interview for me, I'm really got a bit of worries and I still haven't make any preparations on it. Like how am I going to answer all the questions and how am I going to sell myself in front of the employer.
I hope this interview really works out , so I can go through the training provided by this financial company. This is about my future job, if I have succeed to get through the interview.
Therefore, really hopes anything is okay & I am accepted by them. If not, I think it is also a good experience for me on interview. Life doesn't seem easy in every matters unless we really have try it out.If it is a failure, I think we should be more optimistic and accept it as a fact.
Believe it- nothing is impossible in this world. Works it out first before you says you can't.
Every good efforts will bring out possible outcomes to us.
So now I just hope I can do nothing but blogging at here. By the way, tomorrow there will be an interview for me, I'm really got a bit of worries and I still haven't make any preparations on it. Like how am I going to answer all the questions and how am I going to sell myself in front of the employer.
I hope this interview really works out , so I can go through the training provided by this financial company. This is about my future job, if I have succeed to get through the interview.
Therefore, really hopes anything is okay & I am accepted by them. If not, I think it is also a good experience for me on interview. Life doesn't seem easy in every matters unless we really have try it out.If it is a failure, I think we should be more optimistic and accept it as a fact.
Believe it- nothing is impossible in this world. Works it out first before you says you can't.
Every good efforts will bring out possible outcomes to us.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Friendship forever
I think most of us are very familiar with the term of " friendship forever" especially when we wrote to our friends in their comments or messages in email , facebook or any places when we feel free to write it. But, in the reality of life how many of us who really can do it?
What I'm trying to say is not friendship do not last long , but the problems are how are we going to maintain the friendship till the ends or make it last long. Frankly speaking for my thought, I 'm realized that people are always keep changing and move on to the stages of life.This is because we keep meeting some new people in life and move on to the next stage of life.For instance, we keep on our studies from primary school to secondary then high school then college till to university.
Therefore, it is undeniable for sure people will mixed up with those new friends that they met and leave some of the old friends in the past.
All old friends who left in your recent life are those who very close to you and your recent friends.
I think this is a real fact in life and people also can't really keep in touch very often if they are in the different places and there is no time to meet up.
So, the friendship forever for me is just like kinds of wishes I hope I can always keep in touch with my friends.If you all also have a same thought as mine, do you all ever think about this matters before when you wrote friendship forever to your friends?
What I'm trying to say is not friendship do not last long , but the problems are how are we going to maintain the friendship till the ends or make it last long. Frankly speaking for my thought, I 'm realized that people are always keep changing and move on to the stages of life.This is because we keep meeting some new people in life and move on to the next stage of life.For instance, we keep on our studies from primary school to secondary then high school then college till to university.
Therefore, it is undeniable for sure people will mixed up with those new friends that they met and leave some of the old friends in the past.
All old friends who left in your recent life are those who very close to you and your recent friends.
I think this is a real fact in life and people also can't really keep in touch very often if they are in the different places and there is no time to meet up.
So, the friendship forever for me is just like kinds of wishes I hope I can always keep in touch with my friends.If you all also have a same thought as mine, do you all ever think about this matters before when you wrote friendship forever to your friends?
Smile on your face
Do you all ever wonder why if there is a person keeps on smiling with you??What I mean is not that simple smile or it can consider more like something weird is happened on your face or something wrongs with you. I has been in this type of situation before, and it was not many times I faced this type of "awful people".But , somehow I just try to ignore and keep my distances from them. For me , it's just like a kind of weird thing. Or may be I'm too sensitive with how people responds to me, I mean body language- facial expressions.
Smile on your face , it does brings a happy, comfort & friendly signs to other people.However, if it is too over it may cause some distractions and discomfort to others too.
So, please smile with sincerely when you are smiling to someone.As it may brings different emotions to people with what kinds of smile that you gave to them.
Smile on your face , it does brings a happy, comfort & friendly signs to other people.However, if it is too over it may cause some distractions and discomfort to others too.
So, please smile with sincerely when you are smiling to someone.As it may brings different emotions to people with what kinds of smile that you gave to them.
Monday, September 14, 2009
Battle on
Wah, I 'm really exhausted now and my head got a bit of blur. This is may be caused by the fact of I was not enough sleep at yesterday. BATTLE ON , it's means my final exam has already started.
Today is my first day of exam, well so far I think i still manage to do the questions but I just lack of times to complete all them on times. Anyway , I'm glad that it's over as at least there are one less subjects for me to worry and study.Pretty worry for the coming subject -Stochactics. I'm really wonder whether I manage to finish all the syllabus on times or not. Damn sick and headche, as I need to think and think.Battle is on, so what I need to do is just move on and fight with all the energy I have with it , rather than I felt regret for the bad grades I get. Hence, the conclusion is Better study now rather than Regret later.
Today is my first day of exam, well so far I think i still manage to do the questions but I just lack of times to complete all them on times. Anyway , I'm glad that it's over as at least there are one less subjects for me to worry and study.Pretty worry for the coming subject -Stochactics. I'm really wonder whether I manage to finish all the syllabus on times or not. Damn sick and headche, as I need to think and think.Battle is on, so what I need to do is just move on and fight with all the energy I have with it , rather than I felt regret for the bad grades I get. Hence, the conclusion is Better study now rather than Regret later.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Stochastics
This is most difficult subject for me in this semester compare to other subjects.
Really can't get what the lecturer was teaching. Most of the syllabus in this subject are mostly on Poisson Processes, Call option, Put option, Binomial Tree ,Black Scholes, Interest rates and so on.
But , the most confusing and tough part for me is the Ito' Lemma. As the differential at that past is really confusing and making me headche. Its differential is not same with usual Calculus but still consider as a differential equation with a little bit of change inside. I'm still haven't really catch the story at behind of it. Damn sick now, sick of being using my brain to think and think. Try to figure it with whatever I can do with it. Really hopeless now but what to do ? But still need to study too.
Really can't get what the lecturer was teaching. Most of the syllabus in this subject are mostly on Poisson Processes, Call option, Put option, Binomial Tree ,Black Scholes, Interest rates and so on.
But , the most confusing and tough part for me is the Ito' Lemma. As the differential at that past is really confusing and making me headche. Its differential is not same with usual Calculus but still consider as a differential equation with a little bit of change inside. I'm still haven't really catch the story at behind of it. Damn sick now, sick of being using my brain to think and think. Try to figure it with whatever I can do with it. Really hopeless now but what to do ? But still need to study too.
Another sleepless night
Well, it's has been a long week that I studied for my final exam and it will be coming soon in the next week. Life is never be that free and easy when my minds keep telling me that I need to study and study to make sure all those subjects I should study are completed.
That's why I need to make myself more concentrate on my studies rather than just wasting my times on Facebook or online. So far, my progress of studies are well in process as I manage to finish 60% of each subjects.Therefore, I think it should be okay and fine for me to waste my times on blogging or online.
This type of routine has became part of my studies life in University especially there are quizzes, tests or final exam. Being as Actuarial Science student does not is an easy task for me and friends. This is because we spend most of our times on our studies comparable to others course students their life seem to be more relax and less pressure.
May be this is what people says: No pain, no gain.
Hopefully, I'm really can finish all my studies on times before the final exam and manage to do some of the revision on the calculations parts.
Really may God bless me and my friends in the exam.
That's why I need to make myself more concentrate on my studies rather than just wasting my times on Facebook or online. So far, my progress of studies are well in process as I manage to finish 60% of each subjects.Therefore, I think it should be okay and fine for me to waste my times on blogging or online.
This type of routine has became part of my studies life in University especially there are quizzes, tests or final exam. Being as Actuarial Science student does not is an easy task for me and friends. This is because we spend most of our times on our studies comparable to others course students their life seem to be more relax and less pressure.
May be this is what people says: No pain, no gain.
Hopefully, I'm really can finish all my studies on times before the final exam and manage to do some of the revision on the calculations parts.
Really may God bless me and my friends in the exam.
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