理想中的生活

低调， 平静 ， 简单 ，挑战 ，活力与盛气 ，突破与創新 ，目标 。
想要属于自己的私人空间， 一个不会被人打扰的地方， 好让咱们可以闭目静思。
想要更多时间给自己的家人，如果能希望多陪陪他们。
不论他们是男女或老少，也希望偶尔能当他们的听众与关怀他们。

如果能偶尔出来和老友们一起喝茶聊天，并互相关心彼此最近的状况。
必要也可一起去游玩，增进彼此的感情。

如果能遇到对的人，希望能不妨尝试爱情的甜蜜与被爱的感觉/幸福。
希望遇到的爱情能长久，即使它已过了爱情的甜蜜期。
更重要的是希望每个人都会珍惜身边的人，不要错过了才后悔。
也愿天下的有情人，终成眷属。

Late night

May be due the reason that I have slept for awhile just now, that's why it causes me still very awake and don't sleepy now. What am I going to do in this late night?
You no need to tell me too,as I know that I am writing my blog now. For me , this type of daily routine has became quite a normal life to me as I always sleep 2 hours after my dinner and wake up later that.
Hopefully, I won't get fat if I keep continue doing this. But, I have really no choice as I was too tired after the whole day in school. And yet I think myself will more prefer to study at late night as it is more quiet and that is the only time my brain can absorb and more focus.
Besides, I don't really can't study in the morning or noon as the sun / weather will make me feel sleepy besides no mood except during my lecturer.
As I have said I have nothing to do in this late night, I got myself some readings topics that I searched in Google, then I found some blogs written by some people.The topics were mainly about their loves life. I found it was interesting to read what they wrote at there and some of the stories really touched my heart. Undeniable, I am really made by water. While reading the articles, I found myself cried with the contents in the blogs. Really speechless,I don't even how to describe what types of feelings I was just now and just cried with synopsis of the story.
For you all, it may be sound ridiculous but I really cried with it.Got a bit sweat feelings now, but may be that is my real feelings on the things happened on that author.
I think I'm better off to bed now. Good night.

最近常听的歌

南拳妈妈 《下雨天》

下雨天了怎么办 我好想你
不敢打给你 我找不到原因
为什么失眠的声音
变得好熟悉
沉默的场景 做你的代替
陪我听雨滴
期待让人越来越沉迷
谁和我一样
等不到他的谁
爱上你我总在学会
寂寞的滋味
一个人撑伞 一个人擦泪
一个人好累
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大
天要多黑 才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不清那些
彻别 接近还能多一些
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉
期待让人越来越疲惫
谁和我一样
等不到他的谁
爱上你我总在学会
寂寞的滋味
一个人撑伞 一个人擦泪
一个人好累
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大
天要多黑 才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不清那些
彻别 接近还能多一些
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大
天要多黑 才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不清那些
彻别 接近还能多一些
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉

许茹芸& 阿穆隆 《男人女人》

作詞：吳克群
作曲：吳克群


(許)愛愛愛愛了幾回
也明白其中滋味
付出的從來不會等於收回
我卻 還在
等待著誰能出現

(穆)傷傷傷傷了幾回
也曾經為愛憔悴
愛情裡好人總比壞人狼狽
我卻還是學不會
狠心對誰

(許)男人 男人
多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
讓我不必再心疼

(穆)女人 女人
我答應做個好人
我答應用我一生
來換你的快樂一生

(許)愛愛愛愛了幾回
也明白其中滋味
付出的從來不會等於收回
我卻 還在
等待著誰能出現

(穆)傷傷傷傷了幾回
也曾經為愛憔悴
愛情裡好人總比壞人狼狽
(合)我卻還是學不會

狠心 對誰

(許)男人 男人
多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
讓我不必再心疼

(穆)女人 女人
我答應做個好人
我答應用我一生
來換你的快樂一生

(許)男人 男人
多希望你是好人
多希望用你的真
讓我不必再心疼

(穆)女人 女人
我答應做個好人

(合)不會再讓我（你）心疼
一等再等
你就是我等的那個人

(穆)男人 男人
(許)女人 女人
(合)多麼希望你是對的人

好歌推荐：戴爱玲-对的人

戴爱玲-对的人歌词

你问在我心中 是否还苦恼
那次受伤 否决了爱的好
谢谢你的关照 我一切都好
一个人 不算困扰

爱虽然很美妙 却不能为了寂寞 又陷了泥沼
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)

那次流过的泪 让我学习到
如何祝福 如何转身 不要
在眼泪体会到 与自己拥抱
爱不是一种需要 是一种对照

爱虽然很美妙 却不能为了寂寞 又陷了泥沼
爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)

能愿意为了一份爱 付出去多少
然后得到多少并不计较
当我想清楚的时候 我就算已经准备好
放手去爱 海阔天高
喔... 耶...

爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)

爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在(这个)世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现(在眼角)

好歌推荐：神木与瞳 - 为你而活

神木与瞳 - 为你而活
歌词

看生命 像阵风 包不住的痛 所以紧握双手
抬起头 那流星般的笑容 只不过 坠落在心中

天空会裂缝 我肩头 添上的爱那麼久 就不怕 滂沱
用眼泪庆贺 跨过了 坚信这一扇门后 真的有 天国

为了你而活 为了你而梦 为了爱我会撑到最后
当世界都乌有 守著你的人是我
为了你而活 为了你而梦 伤痕再深心无法划破
跟命运在逆流 就算错了 也不退后

不闪躲 在这荆棘遍布中 那伤口 会开出花朵
天空会裂缝 我肩头 添上的爱那麼重 就不怕 滂沱
用眼泪庆贺 跨过了 坚信这一扇门后 真的有 天国

为了你而活 为了你而梦 为了爱我会撑到最后
当世界都乌有 守著你的人是我
为了你而活 为了你而梦 伤痕再深心无法划破
跟命运在逆流 就算错了 也不退后

为了你而活 为了你而梦 为了爱我会撑到最后
当世界都乌有 守著你的人是我
为了你而活 为了你而梦 伤痕再深心无法划破
跟命运在逆流 就算错了 也不退后

Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two

This is an article I took from my mail.Just feel like want to share with my friends / people at here.So, please read and absorb them as some of the proverbs in life.

Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two

小心讀每一個，再用一兩秒想一想

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。

7.. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。

8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。

12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。

REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
緊記: 所有事也是因果循環的。
True friends: How many people actually have 8 true friends?
真正朋友: 有幾多人有八位真正的朋友?
Hardly anyone I know ! But some of us have all right friends and good friends!!!
我幾乎不認識這些人! 但在我們當中有些人全有對和好的朋友!!!



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Being happy is the priority of living,
If u wanna be sad,
Be sad 4 something thats worth it.
珍惜你所擁有的，慶幸所曾發生的。
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相爱容易相处难 ，分手时还是要学会放手

其实， 我会把这文章贴上是有原因的。因为身边的室友经常和男友吵架， 不只是单纯地闹情趣，感觉上好像都是她在骂她男友。有时连我们这些旁人听到都会为她担心。难到这就是情侣之间的情趣？这我真的没兴趣想知道，只是如果你每天都会听到别人在聊电话时都是在吵架， 那真的是有够纳闷咯！一：是担心她。二：是觉得那又何必呢？
难到情侣间一定要这吵吵闹闹吗？如果真的相爱不是更应该互相迁就和包容吗？

也许这就是相爱容易相处难的道理。但好在她男友能忍让她，要不我看这对恋人肯定完蛋了。
以下这编文章是我在百度那找来的，觉得很有意思所以就贴在这里。内容如何本人就无意见啦，只是纯粹贴在和人分享，这并非本人个人观点。

相爱容易相处难 ，分手时还是要学会放手

●男人都喜欢自己能保护她的女人，都喜欢自己的另一半是依赖自己的，即使女人是比他强的。可是过于依赖就成了对方的拖累，什么事情都要依赖对方，就成了对方的负担，会让对方想逃跑。

　　●男人年轻的时候往往喜欢漂亮的女子，25岁以后，会选择和自己性格合适的女子，能和自己一起过日子的人。

　　●相爱容易相处难。相处中最重要的是宽容和妥协，在信任和了解的基础上。没有宽容和妥协，任何两个人都无法相处。

　　●有两个人甚至更多的人爱上了你，你谁也不想伤害，而恰恰是你暧昧的态度，会让他们都受到伤害。这样的爱是自私的。

　　●失恋对人的打击是极其沉重的，尤其在一个人20岁左右真情初动时。

　　●爱情中棋逢对手最好。如果一个人根本就不是你的对手，那么这样的生活是很乏味的。他(她)一味地顺从你，会让你感到很累。他(她)如果老是给你泼凉水，打击你，这样在一起还不如去监狱更好受一些。只有相互欣赏相互佩服各有所长的人，才会碰撞出最美丽的爱情火花。

　　●当一个人要离开时，你选择放他(她)走，还是缠着他(她)不放？他(她)不爱你的时候就是不爱你了，能缠住他(她)的人，能缠住他(她)的心吗？

　　●分手后最好不要做朋友。剪不断，理还乱。过去了就过去了，我们不是生活在过去，而是现在。

　　●“不会有真爱了，这辈子我就爱他(她)一人。”一个人在刚失恋时会对自己这样说。实际上自己也知道不可能与他(她)在一起了，只是不甘心过去那么多付出。不过，时间会抚平一切伤痕。

幸福就在…

1.拋開所有的不重要的數字，包括年齡，體重，身高。

2.與快樂的人為友，心懷不滿的人會讓你消沉。

3.堅持不懈地學習。

4.從小事中找到樂趣。

5.開懷大笑，笑到不能自拔。

6.想哭就哭。

7.讓你愛的人和事環繞著你

8.珍愛你的健康。

9.不要踏上罪惡之路。

10.告訴你愛的人 "我愛你 "，珍惜每一個機會。

保持年輕的25招

This following article is not written by me. I took it out from the mail I received in my mail box. I just feel like it should be share to my friends at here to read.So, who is the original author for this article frankly speaking I also don't know. Just try to read as references.^_^

保持年輕的25招

1.喝水助消化

您會喝水嗎？這是個傻問題，但，要怎麼喝？喝多少？什麼時候喝？都是大學問。

對愛美的女性來說，水份充足是保持美麗的秘訣，但也不必過量一天約1500C.C.就足夠了，至於口渴，是身體給你的警訊，一定要補充水份。用餐時，喝水可以降低飢餓感，使進食速度減緩，可以減輕胃的負擔，促進良好消化。



2.高鐵高鈣奶粉最好分開食用

高 鐵高鈣奶粉近來頗受歡迎，高鐵的奶粉是為女性設計的，而高鈣則為30歲以上鈣質流失迅速的消費者設計。不少廠商推出高鐵高鈣二合一奶粉，甚至有些還特別強 調又多加了維他命C，讓消費者一次吸收多種營養。不過專家表示奶粉中如果含大量鈣質會不利於鐵質的吸收，如果還加了維他命C來補強吸收力，反而會扭曲牛奶 的營養。所以，最好分別食用，以利吸收。



3.睡眠的黃金時段：晚間10時上床，抵過從凌晨3時睡到正午的效果

有 人說：晚上12時前的1小時，抵得過12時以後的2小時，這是體驗，「早睡並且睡得好」的人的說法。事實上，到了深夜2時至2時半，生理的律動會降低，體 溫、呼吸、脈摶及全身的代謝都降至最低，從午夜零時至3時之間，給予身心刺激的腎上腺素及副腎皮質賀爾蒙，也顯現了不到早晨巔峰的1/3的最低值。因此從 神經賀爾蒙的週期來看，午夜零時至3時是最有效率的睡眠時間這個說法的確無誤。換句話說，這段時間是睡眠的黃金時間（掌管晝夜週期，特別是夜間週期的，是 位於腦中、稱為松果體的賀爾蒙所分泌的物質）。想要獲得有效的睡眠，最好在深夜前兩小時上床，這個時間是晚間十時。這個睡眠的黃金時段，甚至可抵從凌晨三 時睡到正午的效果。如果這個「睡眠與活動的節奏」紊亂，身體狀況不好，便容易生病，這種情形在鳥獸更是明顯。人類如果沒有得到充分的睡眠，第二天便會慵懶 想睡、工作不起勁、頭腦昏沉。

睡眠不足如果持續，工作便做不好，錯誤及事故的發生率增高、健康受阻，開始出現慢性病及成人病。睡眠對一個 人的健康來說，是非常重要的。早晨醒得早是老年人的特徵，這是因為隨著年齡的增加，70歲左右則為6小時，到了80歲，大約5小時即可。因此，有人以為老 人如果儘量縮短睡眠時間能長命，這真是很大的錯誤。睡眠充足才是長命的必要條件。熬夜對年輕人不好，對老年人更不好。



我們曾對120位長命者的就寢時間進行調查後發現：

（1）晚上八時就寢.....46人（2）晚上九時就寢.....35人（3）晚上十時就寢....29人

（4）晚上六時就寢.....8人（5）晚上十二時就寢.....2人。



因 此我們可以發現，長命的人幾乎都在夜間8時至10時就寢。早睡雖然好，但是6、7點左右就上床，半夜裡醒來之後便不容易睡著。事實上，人體的週期也很重 要，最好不要做大幅度的改變。睡得好的人，工作有幹勁--睡得好，疲勞解除，身心就會活潑健康。只要健康，身心沒有疾病，就能睡得好。像這樣睡眠與健康的 良性循環，就是長命之道。



4.潛意識自認老，身體也會跟著老

根據最近的研究，女性生理上的賀爾蒙平衡而 臻於成熟是在30歲時，40歲仍在上升中，50歲時肉體及精神上都處於顛峰狀態。女性若也順其自然的話，40歲時仍然很年輕。因為以前在精神上被迫認老， 連身體也跟著提早衰老，更年期的煩腦便產生，月經也隨之而停。因此，我們可以瞭解，更年期的障礙可以說是一種心情的產物。這種情形，也發生在男性身上，這 時便稱為「男性更年期」。當然，他們不會有停經的問題，但是因為精神狀態的關係，全身病痛齊出，焦躁不安，伴隨而來的是性生活的不如意。羅馬哲人塞泥加曾 說：

「女人的年齡如其外表，男人的年齡則一如他自已所感覺到的。」的確如此。女人如果心理年輕，則肉體也會年輕起來；男人的心情則表現在年齡」。



5.多作運動

每天早上做點運動挺好，但不能費時太久，也能太枯燥，更不能太耗體力。跳繩是最好的選擇。現在還有一種可以調整重量的跳繩，順便訓練臂力和腕力一舉數得。



6.想懷孕嗎？不要吃太多豆芽

英國一份研究報告指出，豆芽中含有植物性動情激素，正值懷孕年齡的女性吃太多豆芽（也就是一天吃超過60公克）容易引起月經?蕊獺受孕不易。然而，根據1996年7月美國兩份研究報告指出，豆芽有預防及治療骨質疏鬆的功效。所以，一週吃兩次豆芽，攝取量剛剛好，多吃無益。



7.多吃蔬果可抗癌

蔬菜水果具有抗癌的作用，多吃有益無害。不論生食或煮熟，一天蔬菜應食用300至500公克，水果200至300公克。最有益的是綠葉蔬菜、洋蔥、覆盆子、櫻桃、李子和蘋果。



8.維他命B群補腦

維他命Ｂ群對腦力活動非常重要。如果睡眠品質不好，多吃新鮮蔬果，它們富含維他命B6。增強記憶力需要維他命B6，以促進神經方面的協調，多吃穀類、蘋果、葡萄，維他命B6必須和鎂互相配合，所以巧克力、小麥胚芽、乾果、胚芽米是最好的選擇。



9.多吃黑麥麵包，減低動脈血壓

黑麥麵包富含纖維，可減低動脈血壓，增進血液中糖代謝。根據一項美國芬蘭合作研究指出，每天吃30克的黑麥麵包對健康有益。



10.多喝綠茶，健康常綠

綠茶好處多多，利尿、預防腹瀉、降低膽固醇，甚至有預防腸癌和食道癌的功效，好處多多。



11.早上去看牙，比較耐痛

如果要和牙醫訂約會，早上比晚上來得適合。因為傍晚開始，人的心理狀態會比較脆、焦慮、緊張，忍受痛苦的耐力也比較差，要看牙醫，早上比較好。



12.吃人參，消除疲勞

大家都知道人參補身，因為人參精可以降低膽固醇、增加活動力、促進睡眠、消除疲勞和焦慮、讓你專心不易分神。



13.想吃糖嗎？餐後吃一點，贅肉少一些

身體對糖的需求也不可忽視，與其下午茶吃下大量的巧克力，不如餐後吃一點糖果，比較不會在屁股顯示肥胖效力，單獨吃糖，容易馬上形成脂肪，而且驅之不去。



14.來點巧克力，減低焦慮

巧克力不只好吃，也能減低焦慮。根據美國加州大學一個研究小組的報告顯示，巧克力和紅葡萄酒一樣，具有抗氧化（防老）的作用。一小塊巧克力沾點紅葡萄酒吃，好處多多嘍？不過為身材著想，最好不要過量。



15.按摩鼻尖，放鬆神經，促進消化

這個簡單的小動作可以減輕所有輕微的消化毛病，例如：脹氣、消化不良。用力以手心壓住鼻尖，以不痛為原則，以畫圓周般按摩30秒，鼻子按摩能放鬆神經，促進消化，不妨一試！



16.配合體能作息：早上7點至11點，或晚上5點至9點工作效率高

人身體器官的活動，有它的時間表，如果有耗費腦力或體力的事，應該排在早上7點至11點，或晚上5點至9點。下午1點至3點是身體最鬆懈的時候，在這段時間內，可以稍事休息，這樣比打一場網球更能放鬆心情。



17.不要吃入過量的鋁，甚至鋁箔包飲料

鋁是導致老年癡呆症的元凶之一。鋁的來源，首要是飲水；其次，來自煮菜用的鋁製鍋碗。根據挪威一個研究結果指出，目前75％至95％的販售飲料都是鋁箔包裝，但是酸性強的飲料不適合裝在鋁箔包內。甚至，廚房用的鋁箔紙都應該減少用量，能用保鮮膜的還是用保鮮膜比較好。



18.冰凍熊寶寶，鼻子不過敏

如果你一抱熊寶寶就噴嚏不停，可能是對毛毛的玩具過敏。最新的過敏醫學報告指出，對這種情形，有個簡單又有效的方法：把熊寶寶擺在冷凍庫中，至少一夜，一個星期一次，冷溫會剷除所有的過敏原。



19.定期健康檢查

不要等生了病才去醫院檢查，平日就應該定時做健康檢查。平日的健康檢查並不會太繁瑣，血液和醫生覺得需要的檢查，省事又安心。小小的舉動卻減少很多危險，詢問你的保險是否給付健康檢查的費用。



20.老祖母的秘方很受用

快感冒時，喝薑湯，裹著被子冒汗；偏頭痛按摩太陽穴，搽萬金油；當歸人參去寒，枸杞明目，這些老人家的偏方，醫學界繞了一大圈才證實它們的可靠性，多聽老人言，對身體只有好處。



21.少穿高跟鞋，避免尿失禁

尤其是細高跟鞋，對健康有害無益。據「協助失禁患者協會」的統計報告，穿過高的高跟鞋不但易造成腳踝移位，也可能造成大小便失禁的問題。



22.作個森林浴

把心情掏空，讓氧氣充滿腦部和心房，芬多精之旅使人心曠神怡。



23.充足的光線，防止情緒低潮

光線有防止憂鬱的功用。光線愈弱，人的情緒愈低潮。因為光線會刺激體內色胺的產生，色胺令人情緒高昂、氣色飽滿，所以攝影師拍人物照時會打強光，就是這個原因。尤其在秋冬二季，把電燈開亮一點，有助心情愉快。但是要切記，不可以過度曝曬在陽光下。



24.為室內空氣保濕

冬季空氣乾燥，喉嚨容易乾澀發炎。空氣溼度介於45至65％間最舒適宜人；如果室內溼度太低，可以放一杯水，加幾滴香精使滿室生香，或是購買空氣加濕器為濕度加把勁。



25.傾聽海濤聲，人造海濤也無妨

最能讓心情放鬆的，莫過於聽水波聲、浪濤拍岸、海鷗叫聲。如無法親臨海邊，也可找張收錄這些美好聲音的情境音樂CD，一天工作完，聽聽這張CD，儘管身處鬧市，也宛如身在海畔。



如果你要改變你的生活，你必須開始改變你的思想。

Beautiful scene in Pulau Tioman

These are some of the photos took by my friends while my class trip to Pulau Tioman in this last May 2009.
Suddenly, I feel like want to post some pictures at here as I feel my blog is lack of some pictures and has a lot of words like here is a comprehensive / composition site.

It is a beautiful sun raising scene in the sea. My friend took it before we reached the Tioman Island.

Doing research

Well, I'm now doing a research on all the stuffs that I wanted in my life.
It's actually the task given to me while I go for interview.Just like what I had mentioned in my previous post -interview experience, everything need to be measurable, specified. Therefore, I' m now searching for all the present values for the things that I listed out.
I feel Damn sick on this, as I have one more subject to go in my final exam. While worrying about the test, I need to spend my times on doing this research.
Everything need to be done before the deadline. When thinking about this task, it makes me feel worrying about my studies. And when I am studying, my minds keep telling me about the research on the task.This kind of feelings really weird and full worry.
I will feel guilty if either of them, I can't do it with well.
Really sick now.... with the busy life I having now.

Love & To be loved

Love and to be loved by someone.
I think this is very a good topic to be discussed in our life.
For me, love is not an easy topic.For my thought,you need to know the person you love, try to understand them on what are theirs needs,dreams,hobbies and things that he/she dislike/like.
Besides these, I think loyalty, respectful and trusts are the important things in any relationships. These are the elements that need in a relationship in order to build a strong bond with your BF/GF in your life.
Back to our topic for today , love and to be loved. I think it depends on how you see and think about it.As some of the people will prefer to be loved by someone than they love their couple.It doesn't means that they are not in love with the partner but what can says is they are not really get into the relationship or they just need someone there to accompany them or may be they will act more careless while handling with that particular relationship.
On the other hand,love is the feeling you fall for someone.When you fall for someone I think most of your times you are thinking about that person and you want to share everything with him/her not matters good or bad and try to be with your love ones. These are the basic things, I think most of the people know. So, I will not try to emphasis much on this.What you can do is just follow your feelings. Let it lead you to the special ones in your life.
Well, I got some questions here to ask? If you have given a chance to choose either to love someone or being loved by someone, which ones you will more preferable?
Or your answer will be both being loved and love the person?
Obviously, this is a very subjective question and it may comes out with all sort of answers or opinions from different people with different type of thinking and their own stands on love.
Hence,there are not perfect answer for this topic. However, the important messages I want to bring up today is please appreciate your love ones and care about him/her and don't bother about who loves who more than the other or ignore/hurt their feelings. As these are the easy/silly mistakes always did by the couple and causes many misunderstands and arguments start.
My advice for those misunderstands/ arguments are please cool down and communicate with each others. As different people has different judgment/point of views/ stands, so what is the best solution is sit down and chat. Try to stand at the point of other people and try to think the ways they think. If you do like this , I'm sure you will know why they are doing that and you also will become a more tolerate and considerate person in your life not only dueling with your relationship but also in others human communications.

Privacy In Internet

I think Privacy is a very basic thing people need in life. For me, privacy can be very subjective and depends on that particular person needs. The reason I try to share this out at my blog today are because I got received some of the irritated email in my mail box previously.
Frankly speaking, I think most of the sender found my profile through the Google search/ free mail search. Most of the contents of were mainly about they want to become my friends and some was even worse as they tended to build up a relationship with me. For my thought, it is really OMG-Oh My God!! Because some of the email were spam.
I'm not try to be over-reacted for what had happened. But, what I trying to issue at here is the privacy in internet. I think we really need to put all the settings in well-manned or if you do not want to expose your full profile in the net, I think you really need to read through all the rules & regulations / settings in your profile before you click on the button.
This is just to make sure your personal details are being protected by the settings that you have made. So, if can please try to read all the settings that you can change in any website like Facebook, Friendster or your own space. It is better put your profile in a protective settings rather than you will receive a lot of spam or junk mails in your mail box.

Amazed by you

I love this song very much, as it's really make me feel love. I mean the passionate love when you are fall for someone. So, I think it will be great to post it at here and share with my friends.

Here is the lyrics for Amazed by you which sang by Lonestar

Every time our eyes meet
This feeling inside me
Is almost more than I can take
Baby when you touch me
I can feel how much you love me
And it just blows me away
Ive never been this close to anyone or anything
I can hear your thoughts
I can see your dreams
I dont know how you do what you do
Im so in love with you
It just keeps getting better
I wanna spend the rest of my life
With you by my side
Forever and ever
Every little thing that you do
Baby Im amazed by you

The smell of your skin
The taste of your kiss
The way you whisper in the dark
Your hair all around me
Baby you surround me
You touch every place in my heart
Oh it feels like the first time every time
I wanna spend the whole night in your eyes

I dont know how you do what you do
Im so in love with you
It just keeps getting better
I wanna spend the rest of my life
With you by my side
Forever and ever
Every little thing that you do
Baby Im amazed by you

Every little thing that you do
Im so in love with you
It just keeps getting better
I wanna spend the rest of my life
With you by my side
Forever and ever
Every little thing that you do
Oh, every little thing that you do
Baby Im amazed by you.

Interview Experience

As what have mentioned on the above title , I'm now trying to write out some of the feelings and experiences I got from my first interview in last Saturday.
The weather on that day was good with slightly drop of rains.
Everything so far was good. And I managed to reach before 12 noon as what have told.
Due to the reason that, me and my friend were having the same interview on the same day and times. Therefore, the interviewee said he will do both interview together.
At the beginning of the interview, he asked us some questions on the task the company had given to us at previous before we went to interview. We then answered all the questions he asked. Later, he read through the resume my friends wrote. I think I had made a big mistake for not preparing a resume during the interview.However, I managed to provide some of the exam certificate of mine to him.
After that, he tried to ask us more on the activities or events we took place from primary school till university.I don't think I was performing well in this section as I was not only nervous but my conversation really not that smooth as usual I talked with my friends.
When all the process above finished , he then started to explain our strength and weakness with us as well as the tasks we have done.
He really has gave us a lot of useful and knowledgeable information to us in financial planning.
You must be SMART during doing a good financial planning.
S-Specified M-Measurable A-Attainable R-Realistic T-Time Bond

The interview ended with the we are given a second chance to redo all the tasks as he saw a potential on our strength.
But, my own feelings after all this interview.I felt this interviewee was a very different way of employer and the ways he did the interview were unique as he was looking for people with a specified strength, high ambitious, realistic and can have fun.
I think his aims are to educate more young talent people to gain high profit with all the financial planning skills he got. And frankly speaking, I think he was a very money minded with good minds set as he is investing on those people to earn money at the same times.
I don't know whether I still want to make myself go move into the company or not. This is because the employer is training people to make a big profit like 100K in 3 years time and more on build up their own business.
I am not saying I don't want to become rich, but it's really realistic stuff and I have never been think so far as my self-esteem is normal and I am not an ambitious person.
Hence, this interview really has made alert about the power of money and its value in different people's minds.

Home Sweet Home

There is really no place like where in your home in this world.
As this is the place where your parents and relatives are and the place where you can find peaceful and comfort that you always wanted in your life.
May be I have been a long times do not come back, as I am busy with my studies in my university. I'm really glad I am home again right now, as when I' m back to my home I can talk and spend my times with my parents and relatives. While having a small talk with them, I can share of my things with them and also know what is happens on them as well. So, I do believe that everything like friendship, relationship or partnership can change except the family bonds can't break even you are argue with your parents. I don't think there is any love greater than a love from your parents.
Frankly speaking, even you may say relationship is also important as well too as your girlfriend/boyfriend will be part of your partner.But ,who knows he/she will leave you in the half way and abandon due to some of the reasons. The reasons are not what I'm going to discuss now, but just the fact that who is the person will be there for you no matters what is happens and going on.
I think if you had really faced some of the bad situation like you are in trouble , I think your own parents will be the most supportive person who stand on your back to support you.Your home is the place where always open up to you and your dad & mum are always be there to welcome you.
I 'm really love my dad & mum , aunty ,granny , as they really make me feel want to go home.
Even though, I will tell myself my studies are more important and I must stay back to study till the final exam are ended.
Every times I am back my heart will tell me not to leave here soon and try to stay as long as I can.However, I know I can't stay long here too due to I still have my stuff to do and my future destiny is waiting for me. I'm really can't make myself keep staying in this comfort zone but to move on with my life.
I'm really hope young people like us will think more about our parents and home. The place where we are coming from when we are small till big.The place we growing up ,studying in primary school till secondary school before we entered our college and university and later working in the real world.
And remember that it was never too late to go home now and tell your parents that you love them.

Short break now.....

Tonight is a wonderful night for me, as I 'm finally can have a short break to rest and do my stuff rather than just keep on my studies. Really sweat and tired if I need to study again after I had spent almost two weeks in studying. Still left one more subject to go, then I can finally have my holidays.
So now I just hope I can do nothing but blogging at here. By the way, tomorrow there will be an interview for me, I'm really got a bit of worries and I still haven't make any preparations on it. Like how am I going to answer all the questions and how am I going to sell myself in front of the employer.
I hope this interview really works out , so I can go through the training provided by this financial company. This is about my future job, if I have succeed to get through the interview.
Therefore, really hopes anything is okay & I am accepted by them. If not, I think it is also a good experience for me on interview. Life doesn't seem easy in every matters unless we really have try it out.If it is a failure, I think we should be more optimistic and accept it as a fact.
Believe it- nothing is impossible in this world. Works it out first before you says you can't.
Every good efforts will bring out possible outcomes to us.

Friendship forever

I think most of us are very familiar with the term of " friendship forever" especially when we wrote to our friends in their comments or messages in email , facebook or any places when we feel free to write it. But, in the reality of life how many of us who really can do it?
What I'm trying to say is not friendship do not last long , but the problems are how are we going to maintain the friendship till the ends or make it last long. Frankly speaking for my thought, I 'm realized that people are always keep changing and move on to the stages of life.This is because we keep meeting some new people in life and move on to the next stage of life.For instance, we keep on our studies from primary school to secondary then high school then college till to university.
Therefore, it is undeniable for sure people will mixed up with those new friends that they met and leave some of the old friends in the past.
All old friends who left in your recent life are those who very close to you and your recent friends.
I think this is a real fact in life and people also can't really keep in touch very often if they are in the different places and there is no time to meet up.
So, the friendship forever for me is just like kinds of wishes I hope I can always keep in touch with my friends.If you all also have a same thought as mine, do you all ever think about this matters before when you wrote friendship forever to your friends?

Smile on your face

Do you all ever wonder why if there is a person keeps on smiling with you??What I mean is not that simple smile or it can consider more like something weird is happened on your face or something wrongs with you. I has been in this type of situation before, and it was not many times I faced this type of "awful people".But , somehow I just try to ignore and keep my distances from them. For me , it's just like a kind of weird thing. Or may be I'm too sensitive with how people responds to me, I mean body language- facial expressions.
Smile on your face , it does brings a happy, comfort & friendly signs to other people.However, if it is too over it may cause some distractions and discomfort to others too.
So, please smile with sincerely when you are smiling to someone.As it may brings different emotions to people with what kinds of smile that you gave to them.

Battle on

Wah, I 'm really exhausted now and my head got a bit of blur. This is may be caused by the fact of I was not enough sleep at yesterday. BATTLE ON , it's means my final exam has already started.
Today is my first day of exam, well so far I think i still manage to do the questions but I just lack of times to complete all them on times. Anyway , I'm glad that it's over as at least there are one less subjects for me to worry and study.Pretty worry for the coming subject -Stochactics. I'm really wonder whether I manage to finish all the syllabus on times or not. Damn sick and headche, as I need to think and think.Battle is on, so what I need to do is just move on and fight with all the energy I have with it , rather than I felt regret for the bad grades I get. Hence, the conclusion is Better study now rather than Regret later.

Stochastics

This is most difficult subject for me in this semester compare to other subjects.
Really can't get what the lecturer was teaching. Most of the syllabus in this subject are mostly on Poisson Processes, Call option, Put option, Binomial Tree ,Black Scholes, Interest rates and so on.
But , the most confusing and tough part for me is the Ito' Lemma. As the differential at that past is really confusing and making me headche. Its differential is not same with usual Calculus but still consider as a differential equation with a little bit of change inside. I'm still haven't really catch the story at behind of it. Damn sick now, sick of being using my brain to think and think. Try to figure it with whatever I can do with it. Really hopeless now but what to do ? But still need to study too.

Another sleepless night

Well, it's has been a long week that I studied for my final exam and it will be coming soon in the next week. Life is never be that free and easy when my minds keep telling me that I need to study and study to make sure all those subjects I should study are completed.
That's why I need to make myself more concentrate on my studies rather than just wasting my times on Facebook or online. So far, my progress of studies are well in process as I manage to finish 60% of each subjects.Therefore, I think it should be okay and fine for me to waste my times on blogging or online.
This type of routine has became part of my studies life in University especially there are quizzes, tests or final exam. Being as Actuarial Science student does not is an easy task for me and friends. This is because we spend most of our times on our studies comparable to others course students their life seem to be more relax and less pressure.
May be this is what people says: No pain, no gain.
Hopefully, I'm really can finish all my studies on times before the final exam and manage to do some of the revision on the calculations parts.
Really may God bless me and my friends in the exam.