26 November 2009 Story

Today was a sunny day as there was no raining in the whole day.
As recently, it was raining everyday and even throughout of the last few weeks.
I wake up at 9.30am morning even though today I supposed to be still laid on my bed as there was no class on today. This was because I had already promised my friend, Jynn to go for the morning market in our housing areas as both of us want to buy some fruits and vegie in the market.
After buying them, we went for our breakfast. While eating, we had topics on the food in PJ again as the taste of the "spicy pan mee" is really good and other things like We must try to eat all the food in PJ we like/want before we go to Setapak there.
For me, I think I will miss everything at here, the food, friends, environment but I believe I can adapt myself fast with no problem in another new place. However, I just need to take a little bit time to get used with that new place and those people I will meet at the campus.
In the afternoon, I went out again with my housemates: Wanqi,Teoh and his friend Chris who currently study in Hokkaido, Japan. The reason we went for tea was just like some kind of farewell to Teoh and Chris as Teoh was offically moved out to other place and Chris will go back to his hometown and in next January he will fly back to Japan again.
Frankly, all of us in our house just know Chris recently through Teoh.
May be all of us are that type of frankly speaking person, therefore all of us include Chua (another housemate) really have a great chat with Chris.
And all of us (my housemate and I) always talk with each other with some topics in daily life just like a family. I am the big sister among them, however for me I don't think an age is the barrier for us to communicate as I think it is depends on how you going to approach those people.

For me, I think it is important for every individual to learn how to communicate with different people with different background, age and thinking. And how you start a conversation with people. This is because from conservations, we may found that what are people's thinking, the ways they chat with people ,personality and the method they use to respond to those stuff they unwilling to disclose.Besides, you may made people reveal more about themselves by asking questions and try to lead them with some topics in order to build the rapport between people.

During the conservations among them, I find out it's very interesting to get know all of them as you may found that nowadays children who born in 1990th onwards are different from those born in 1980th. I think I have given the opportunity to know better what are the thinking of those young people and what was the difference of their secondary school life compare to my ones. May be sometimes they are "San Pat" and naive but for me it depends how you treat it and respond with them as a "san Pat" or as an open-minded adviser to give them some opinions in life.

In brief, if you try to mix with young people just try not to act like you are the senior and treat them as children. Learn to treat them as an adult. This is because you will bring a gap with those young people. For them, they might think what for I talk to this old people with that type narrow-minded thinking always treat them as a naive person.
So, that's all I want to share today.

Moving to Setapak soon

Moving to Setapak soon in this coming end of December.
As me and my friends, we had chosen to study in the Faculty of FES in Setapak to complete our last semester there. This is because some of the subjects we need to take are only available at there if not we need to extend for one more semester to study.
Really tired now, I don't want to think so much now.
Quite of sick of being thinking about this, but hope to pass all the subjects and complete my studies.
However, what makes us feel bad are we miss PJ. The place that we had been stayed for almost 3 years. The people, food, friends and those restaurant or even those food we use to eat at PJ. Besides that, of course we will miss those shopping mall near PJ like Mid-valley, One Utama, Tropicana City Mall etc even though I'm not a great shopper.
We had already found a condo in Wangsa Maju there. Now only left the procedure of signing contact and see when can take the keys and move in the condo. So, in this coming December I think I definitely are very busy and have a little bit time to go back hometown -TPG. As besides moving house, I need to start packing my stuff and prepare for my final exam now.
Hopefully everything will be alright. As recently really got a lot changes for the arrangements that we have made due to human factors.
I'm really hope people can keep their minds clear and don't be hesitate or keep changes minds as it is very troublesome and making people sick.

2012 "The end of day in the earth"

Today, it can considered as happy day for me and my friends.
As we had finally finished and submitted our assignment today.
The last things need to be done for this short semester.
Well, it's really undeniable and without realize it had already at the end of November 2009.
Time flies and it's really flies away.
Back to us again, after our class ended. We went go One Utama shopping mall to have some food at Sakae Sushi there after we had bought our tickets for the movie called "2012".
So, we just spent our time to eat and chat inside the restaurant there until the time was almost 5.00pm then we walked to the GSC cinema there. The whole movie took about two and the hour to finish. We then went home with Wendy's car.
While watching that movie, there were many feelings and emotions happened on me.
I can see what is happened if there is really an "end of day" in the world and how will you feel and react. Besides, I have started to think if there is really a day like that who will I spend my time with and what are the things that I want to do before the end of day.
My answer are my family and all my loved ones. People need comfort from each other especially when they are in dilemma. If there are more times left behind,I hope I can travel to the place I want to go. As I always have the thinking of travel to other countries to broaden my minds and hope to see the culture and those architecture building in different places. If I'm really have a time to travel again, I hope that I can go for a trip to China or HK or Macau again. Or may be to other countries like Taiwan or Korea after I have graduated. So,I hope I'm really can pass all now, then I go as soon as possible in the next coming year 2010. If not my mum sure nag on me.
Besides that, I also feel that the conscience of the people on saving others life
and the in-selfishness are very important after I watched the movie of "2012".
Moreover, I think this is the time to let our people to wake up and start help to save our mother earth. So that, she won't get hurt by our human being.
Hopefully, I can reduce the usage of plastic nowadays, as sometimes I also will use it for the reason of convenient.

IS Relationship= Relation + shit ??

Today, I just found that my cousin had broke up with her boyfriend as I saw her post of relationship status being from "In a relationship " to "single" in the facebook.
Really sad to know about this, as I'm never think of there will be one day like this.
Everything seem nothing and I don't even know what happened in between of them. For me, I don't think I'm really dare to ask her directly as this may be sensitive and personal issue.
However, there are many questions in my minds now and I'm not try to gossip but concern about why it had happened. My concern are more on why the relationship doesn't last long even though they had been together (for what I can remember) at least 3 years.Is it the problem of the person or other factors?
Frankly speaking, I'm really can't accept it and don't know how comes nowadays those relationship can be started so easy and ended so misery.
I don't know whether to feel pity for her boyfriend or my cousin. As my cousin got wrote a sentence in her personal text in facebook there. the content is something that she finally broke up with that "cheap guy", now when she think of him also feel very hate, but thank for all those good things he did for her.
Haiz, really speechless for her action as the ways of displaying all those sentence in the social networking website. There got a lot of eyes and people there. Somemore, some of my cousin's friends still post comments on it. I feel like they make the issue like a common discussion on the internet.
May be this trend of the relationship. Really wonder can I define it as: Relationship = Relation + shit
When it starts it is a relationship , but once it ends it defines as relationshit
However, for me the relationship is depends on the couple. How they handle their relationship, how they respect and communicate with each other, how to guide each other and grow up together and I'm believe true love will last forever and love has no boundaries even if that is a long-distance love.

仙劍奇俠傳三

最近，我都在听这两首歌。也许真的被歌词当中的意义及被仙剑奇侠传三内的剧情感动。
紫萱对长卿的那份爱。他们的三世姻缘，及紫萱对爱的执拙。

《偏爱》-张芸京
把昨天都作废现在你在我眼前
我想爱请给我机会
如果我错了也承担认定你就是答案
我不怕谁嘲笑我极端
相信自己的直觉
顽固的仍不喊累
爱上你我不撤退
我说过我不闪躲我非要这麽做
讲不听也偏要爱更努力爱让你明白
没有别条路能走你决定要不要陪我
讲不听偏爱看我感觉爱
等你的依赖对你偏爱
痛也很愉快

把昨天都作废现在你在我眼前
我想爱请给我机会
如果我错了也承担认定你就是答案
我不怕谁嘲笑我极端
相信自己的直觉
顽固的仍不喊累
爱上你我不撤退
我说过我不闪躲我非要这麽做
讲不听也偏要爱更努力爱让你明白
没有别条路能走你决定要不要陪我
讲不听偏爱看我感觉爱
等你的依赖
不后悔有把握我不闪躲我非要这麽做
讲不听也偏要爱更努力爱让你明白
没有别条路能走你决定要不要陪我
讲不听偏爱看我感觉爱
等你的依赖对你偏爱
痛也很愉快

《此生不换》青鸟飞鱼
时光穿不断 流转在从前
刻骨的变迁 不是遥远
再有一万年 深情也不变
爱像烈火般蔓延

记忆是条长线 盘旋在天边
沉浮中以为 情深缘浅
你再度出现 我看见誓言
承诺在水天之间

回头看 不曾走远 依然目光此生不换
要分散 不习惯 怎么算 都太难
分开之后更勇敢 愿这爱 世代相传

唱不完忘情泉 不让你如烟
前尘再怀恋 望剑如面
挥舞的瞬间 别再闭上眼
错过惊世的依恋

回头看 不曾走远 眷恋一人流连忘返
多少汗 够温暖 你哭喊 我呼唤
听清耳边的呢喃 别害怕 风轻云淡