Sunday, November 22, 2009

IS Relationship= Relation + shit ??

Today, I just found that my cousin had broke up with her boyfriend as I saw her post of relationship status being from "In a relationship " to "single" in the facebook.
Really sad to know about this, as I'm never think of there will be one day like this.
Everything seem nothing and I don't even know what happened in between of them. For me, I don't think I'm really dare to ask her directly as this may be sensitive and personal issue.
However, there are many questions in my minds now and I'm not try to gossip but concern about why it had happened. My concern are more on why the relationship doesn't last long even though they had been together (for what I can remember) at least 3 years.Is it the problem of the person or other factors?
Frankly speaking, I'm really can't accept it and don't know how comes nowadays those relationship can be started so easy and ended so misery.
I don't know whether to feel pity for her boyfriend or my cousin. As my cousin got wrote a sentence in her personal text in facebook there. the content is something that she finally broke up with that "cheap guy", now when she think of him also feel very hate, but thank for all those good things he did for her.
Haiz, really speechless for her action as the ways of displaying all those sentence in the social networking website. There got a lot of eyes and people there. Somemore, some of my cousin's friends still post comments on it. I feel like they make the issue like a common discussion on the internet.
May be this trend of the relationship. Really wonder can I define it as: Relationship = Relation + shit
When it starts it is a relationship , but once it ends it defines as relationshit
However, for me the relationship is depends on the couple. How they handle their relationship, how they respect and communicate with each other, how to guide each other and grow up together and I'm believe true love will last forever and love has no boundaries even if that is a long-distance love.

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