Love & To be loved

Love and to be loved by someone.
I think this is very a good topic to be discussed in our life.
For me, love is not an easy topic.For my thought,you need to know the person you love, try to understand them on what are theirs needs,dreams,hobbies and things that he/she dislike/like.
Besides these, I think loyalty, respectful and trusts are the important things in any relationships. These are the elements that need in a relationship in order to build a strong bond with your BF/GF in your life.
Back to our topic for today , love and to be loved. I think it depends on how you see and think about it.As some of the people will prefer to be loved by someone than they love their couple.It doesn't means that they are not in love with the partner but what can says is they are not really get into the relationship or they just need someone there to accompany them or may be they will act more careless while handling with that particular relationship.
On the other hand,love is the feeling you fall for someone.When you fall for someone I think most of your times you are thinking about that person and you want to share everything with him/her not matters good or bad and try to be with your love ones. These are the basic things, I think most of the people know. So, I will not try to emphasis much on this.What you can do is just follow your feelings. Let it lead you to the special ones in your life.
Well, I got some questions here to ask? If you have given a chance to choose either to love someone or being loved by someone, which ones you will more preferable?
Or your answer will be both being loved and love the person?
Obviously, this is a very subjective question and it may comes out with all sort of answers or opinions from different people with different type of thinking and their own stands on love.
Hence,there are not perfect answer for this topic. However, the important messages I want to bring up today is please appreciate your love ones and care about him/her and don't bother about who loves who more than the other or ignore/hurt their feelings. As these are the easy/silly mistakes always did by the couple and causes many misunderstands and arguments start.
My advice for those misunderstands/ arguments are please cool down and communicate with each others. As different people has different judgment/point of views/ stands, so what is the best solution is sit down and chat. Try to stand at the point of other people and try to think the ways they think. If you do like this , I'm sure you will know why they are doing that and you also will become a more tolerate and considerate person in your life not only dueling with your relationship but also in others human communications.